Relationship period....

lovey dovey - Lovey dovey is a normal action for lovers when they first start a relationship, but unfortunately, i cannot last forever due to many reasons.
@xxj3ffxx (501)
Australia
December 23, 2010 7:53am CST
One friend once told me that in every relationship, The first year is always the year where you got all excited and its where you become very lovey dovey The second year is always when the hard times becomes tough and fights between the couples are the worst. If within the second year, the couple survive and up to third year, means that they are ready for marriage. Is this statement of my friend true? Does it apply to you also?
2 responses
• Indonesia
23 Dec 10
haha. in my experience, first and second year I always have fight in relationship. it is because woman n man are different. they have different way, different thoughts, different point of view. first and second year, both need to conform to each other. so many fight and hard times, but just let it flow. after years, both will know each other more deep. but sometime, after years ones can get bored in relationship..haha. well, about marriage, it can be thought during the relationship. if we ready then we'll go there, but don't have to hurry. the time will come when we're ready.
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
23 Dec 10
If at the beginning itself, you starts to fight? I think the relationship wont go far is it? or am i wrong? I think that the girl or the guy will get fed up very easily if fights starts when just at the start Of course I agree that the first year and second year is the time for the couple to know each other..
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
24 Dec 10
Yes, maybe you weren't ready for a relationship yet. but now it seems that both of you are grown up and ready to start a new story together.
• Indonesia
23 Dec 10
err..after two months I already have fight..haha..I usually the one that started the fight. well, in two years, there are break ups and back again together..but it can stand till now.. :)
@debs90 (547)
• India
23 Dec 10
Your friend is a genius or a very experienced person. Whatever he told you is 100 % correct.....
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
23 Dec 10
woah.. my friend is a girl... she is younger than me and tho more experience in such relationships... i didn't really believed that it was true til i realize from my own experience.