How do I know a cool boyfriend love me?

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
December 24, 2010 5:31am CST
I have a cool boyfriend. The least he does not ever show his feelings if he was like with me. When asked about love, he says love to me. Now, that be a problem, he has not had the slightest show his feelings to me. In fact if I'm not a contact he's not going to contact me. sometimes for no reason he immediately turns his cellphone in order not to be on call. Actually, what he really love me?.
11 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 10
every boy had many different character.. dont push another character to your boyfriend even he is too cool, but maybe in his depply heart he love you to much
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@nykel88 (999)
• Philippines
25 Dec 10
That Depends on how well you know that Boy. If he is a show off then you'd probably under his spell. Though if he really loves you then look into details what he did to you. Hardest Part of you having a Cool Guy is that he maintains to be cool.. That ain't what Chicks want for eternity.
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@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 11
I've tried and several times to attract attention from him, he was more concerned about my goal for me, maybe he will not change, maybe he will continue to cool until whenever.
30 Jan 11
What you should know , is he really just have one girlfriend? If the answer is yes, then the problem is maybe he is pretending that he likes you. You know, in love relationship, Who gives more, who hurts more. Some people will just hide there their feeling to protect themselves . Ok, remember to find the real problem between you two, and communicate with him.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
28 Dec 10
I wondered with you. In one discussion, you position yourself as a man. In this discussion you as a woman. I became confused.
• Nigeria
25 Dec 10
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@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
25 Dec 10
by looking how he threats other he loves, like his sister, brother, mom and dad, that's exactly how he reacts to those he loves cause he must love even one in his family he might be the type that doesn't say to much or show affection but then buy stuff, or he is protective to those who he loves i always find out by compearing how he threats his mother, if he threats me worse than it's bye bye LOL
@Ritmon (118)
25 Dec 10
I think now you should wait for that day when your boyfriend can't stay withouttell his feelings to you......i think that day will be your very special day...i hope that day comes near.......just try to feel his every expressions..
@whateva (786)
• India
24 Dec 10
and i might be wrong, just ask him to open up a lil. after all, in love, you shouldn't be afraid to say how you feel.
@whateva (786)
• India
24 Dec 10
i don't really wanna judge this relation for what i read right now. but i've been in something like this before or i should say something exactly like this. .
• India
24 Dec 10
I really don't think so
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
24 Dec 10
if he really loves you he will do so as follows: 1. The person who loves you can never give a reason why she loves you, he knows there's only your eyes only. 2. People who love you will always receive you what it is, in his eyes you are always the prettiest / most handsome, although perhaps you feel you have excessive weight gain or you feel overweight. 3. People who love you obtaining want to know about you, whatever you spent all day today, he'd like to know you activity. 4. People who love you will send sms like "good morning" "good-day week" "good sleep", even if you do not reply to a message. 5. If your birthday and you did not invite him at least he would call to congratulate or send sms. 6. People who love you will always remember every incident which he spent with you, maybe even your own events to have forgotten every detail, because it was something precious to him. 7. People who love you always remember every word you say maybe even the words that you yourself forget never say it.
@zenkey23 (416)
• Philippines
24 Dec 10
I think your boyfriend has certain reason or REASONS why he did is not showing his love for you. If you are that willing to maintain your relationship you wont be shy confronting your boyfriend and confessing your feelings :) Men have different moods. What i mean is that men are moody. Sometimes men do not know how to handle things and they started getting confused and start being angry or sometimes thinks only themselves that turns into selfishness. Even though they have girlfriends or whatsoever they sometimes forgot that because of their change of moods. So its best if you and your boyfriend would talk about it even if you have to do it everyday :) If you are sincere make a move^^ Always remember that in a relationship even only one makes a move. It may lead to HAPPY ENDING. :) Imagine if you two are shy and just let things happen if you do not like it. What will happen? For sure BREAK UP! :( Sorry if i confused you a bit but i just want to help you so i hope you understand and get my point :) Merry Christmas and Happy myLotting. :)