Height and Weight Do Matter?

@Lance26 (956)
Philippines
December 26, 2010 7:41am CST
Honestly it does for me if I am going to choose my girl by eyes. But As they say the more picky you are is the more chance you end up with the exact opposite. Whether this is true or not I always let my heart decides whom to love as true love for me isn't choosy and conditional. Anyway, when it comes to bed height isn't considered while weight may gives you favorable options.
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10 responses
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
hello lance26! i'm kind of petite and i would not want my man to be shorter than me or we'd end up like a couple of dwarf. i would not want a chubby man too. actually personal appearance doesn't matter to me as long as im happy with him but i hope his height and weight would not be exactly like what i have described above.
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
Hi there deriellevc73, Is that you on the display? Wow you're so adorable. I was lost for words.
@harry89 (2330)
• India
27 Dec 10
Well, according to me height and weight does matter. As whenever we meet a person for the first time we observe them from our eyes and our eys always like good looks but you decision at that time may change when you know about that person more and you like their qualities. So sometimes it does matter and sometimes it does not. Happy mylotting. Regards, harry.
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
Thanks harry. Who wouldn't want a partner with ideal height and weight right?
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
26 Dec 10
Height and weight are so petty when it comes to relationships. I know so many men that sought out the skinny, blond bombshells. Once they married them everything changes.They put on weight, roots began to show the real hair color etc. See to me I dont care whats on outside so long as the inside NEVER changes. Thats not what love, friendship, is about. People can choose to be shallow but then they'd better make sure they,too, are a bombshell. Must be one to get one right? That's way too much work for me! Happy MyLotting dl
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
I may say guys who are shorter, taller, skinny or chunky has equal chances in your heart. I like you.
• Philippines
26 Dec 10
I think you can choose. If you say no then it is a no. You wont have a boyfriend that you didn't say yes to right. For me as long as I am happy with the person she is alright for me.
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
I believe so. It's just a matter to whom you are happy with. You'll never know she regardless her physical attribute can be your destiny and spend the rest of your life with her.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
28 Dec 10
Height does not really matter to me but weight is a major factor. As i'm not very tall, it's easy for me to find guys of the same height and that's fine with me. Also, guys with height often has an added advantage and i feel more secure with them. WHile weight does matter to me because it makes them look unhealthy, even though they might be in good health. As i'm an outgoing person, i would want my bf to be able to join me in my activities rather than using his weight as an excuse for not joining me.
@Xansus (946)
• Bulgaria
26 Dec 10
There are things i can take and that i cant take :) Well about Height its not that easy to find some girl as high as me i know one or two for the whole my life ;) but normaly they shorty :P So Hight normal dont botter me :) About Weight every boy likes not fat but still no bone girls :) Sorry but i'm not in to the ++ weight girls :) Well there are people that dont pick but well for me it matters :)
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
Yes. We have our own preferences. SO sad to admit but most of us prefer our partner not so heavy nor bony.
@aprilsong (1884)
• China
27 Dec 10
well,it is true we care about the other part's appearance very much,especially for males. because there is a saying: men fall in love with their eyes,while women fall in love with their ears.and it is more ture for the young people than old people. because old people get to know what is really important than younger ones. so for most people,they care more about height and weight of their the other parts before marriage.and after marriage, they will learn sometimes it does not matter at all. because humor,kind heart,hard working,and most important, being good to you is the most important things.so at this time, some glittering points of his or her before marriage will disappear.so you know,in my opnion, the most beautifull love is not those in the goodlooking and rich people.but amony those who can overcome lots of difficults and getting old together.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
For me it is matter so that it can add your points to the one who is seeing on us.
@zaga_cleuth (1407)
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
For me, height matters, because I'm a tall girl, I don't choose guy shorter than me, because it seems awkward. No offense but it's true to my side. I have a friend. He's almost my shoulder level. Whenever we see each other, I'm not allowed to wear heals, and so it's so hard for me to talk to him too. Though I like him I can't just allow him to court me because of his height.
• Philippines
27 Dec 10
well. i am a tall girl, so i want a six-footer 'coz it will feel awkward if the guy is shorter than me... right? and to weight, uhm. i just want him to be slim and healthy. :D but of course, if my heart beats for the guy that has an opposite trait... it will no longer matter. :D like what they've said, LOVE IS BLIND.