when to have kids

I personally think one should be ready to be parent, then only it's time to have kids, age or marriage doesn't really matter. Most importantly, you have to be mentally and emotionally prepared for kids. Just ask yourself if you can take care of the baby now, if you are willing to spend time with him or her, if you can give up your personal time or hobbies, etc. Some people told me, financial is important, they need to have enough money then only they can have kids. But to me, one should have enough love, then only he should have kids. If you have the money, but you may not wish to spend time with the baby. Babies or kids need attention or companies from the parents, but not the money. Also, being a parent can be really tiring, especially when the kid is still young. The baby may cry for the whole night, and you can't sleep for the whole night. The baby can be crying for the whole day too. Also, when he grows older, he may throw temper, do things that you do not expect, do not listen to what you told him, etc. These are all common for young kids, and these are natural, can you handle all these and hold your emotions? I have seen some or many parents keep scolding the kids, just because the kids doing something naturally (which the kids will do, but the adults don't think it's right). I always pity the kids. Kids need love and care from the parents. I am not scaring you, but I just think that if you are ready for all these, you can go ahead and get pregnant. Being a parent is really great, especially for a mother. I am a mother of a two year old son, I still remember the time I was pregnant, it's really wonderful though sometimes it's painful. Though sometimes I need to stay up the whole night taking care of my son, I still feel grateful, because he is my son. I always think age doesn't really matter, as long as you truly love your baby. ^_^

You said you are married, so having a kid is not a problem if you are both healthy. The only thing to consider is that if you are emotionally and mentally prepared to have kids. Nurturing a so fragile thing is not an easy tasks, you need to be emotionally prepared as well as mentally equipped in order to carry your tasks efficiently. Also ,physical stability is need. How can you take care of your baby when you are not fit to. Be healthy first . Taking care of a baby as well as children is physically strenuous , believe me because I am already a mum of 4. :) When you can answer all these and assess yourself that you are indeed ready, then, It is tie for you to have that little darling.:) Goodluck and God bless.:)

A lady can get an unexpected pregnancy at anytime if she is in that sort of relationship. It is better to be happy about a positive pregnancy test than unhappy and worried. If a lady gets a surprise pregnancy than it is lovely if she gets her life ready for the baby she is going to have. If a lady finds out she is pregnant her due date might be 10th August 2011. So she have months to get ready for her baby. You sound like the sort of teenager that would make a lovely parent. I believe that the best age for a lady to have a baby is around 24 years old. It could be age 24 to 29 years old. The early twenties are another great age range for pregnancy if the lady is ready like ages 21 to 23 years old. When I was at school my friend's sister got pregnant at 18 years old. She had that baby girl when she was 19 years old. She and her boyfriend went on to have a baby boy and then another baby girl. They are still together and are happy in their relationship. That girl made an excellent mother and she still is. That lady is in a living together set up and they didn't bother getting married. I think that a married 20 year old would be fine to have a baby.