How do you feel if you have no answer to your respond?
By Suggar
@Suggar (3606)
Bulgaria
December 28, 2010 3:33pm CST
Hello friends,
month ago i could see many discussions, where the poster of the topic answered only on few responds he receive, instead of all he had as posts. I'm wondering is it so hard for some of to respond to all? I feel little strange if i spend time in answering to a question and at the end, the person who asked for advice, asked for opinion or whatever doesn't pay attention to my post or doesn't show it, even if he pays attention.
For me - i always respond to everyone, who join my discussions. It's kind of respect for me to show the people my positive attitude specially about them and to thank the person that he spent time with answering to my discussion. We have so many new around, every minute, every hour, every day, we can be so easy lost with that activity that i appreciate every respond i receive and i give the chance to the people to keep writing in my discussions in mini boxes for what they would love to. 
How do you feel when you type and it looks like nobody read you? When you give your best to respond to someone and at the end same person doesn't write after you?
How do you feel when you type and it looks like nobody read you? When you give your best to respond to someone and at the end same person doesn't write after you?3 people like this
10 responses
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Dec 10
suggar I knw what you feel but I want you to look at the other side of this, what happens if the discussion maker is taken ill and cannot be here to finish commenting on all her discussions,does that make her a
horrible person? I had no one to take my place as my son does not belong to mylot and I was ill and could not work on mylot as I was ill in bed so now I am trying hard to catch up on what I had missed quite a time back. So if this could happen to me,it has probably happened to others too. If you check on my latest discussions you will see I have pretty much caught up and am trying to keep caught up but I had a period where I was on stereoids trying to get rid of a rash that sent me to er and to bed for awhile. I promise to you and all my friends to do a better job of commenting. to those who really just do not comment you are missing a great way of earning more money trust me plus playing fair with fellow mylotters who have taken the time to respond to you. I have always said its not fair to those who take time and thought to 
respound not to comment as soon as possible.
respound not to comment as soon as possible.1 person likes this
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
29 Dec 10
Hey Hatley, it's normal if we can't open at the moment, i'm the same, soon after i posted the discussion last night i went to sleep, because it was too late. I'm watching the hours of the responds... and if the hour of the respond to someone else is done in the similar hour i wrote.. 
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
29 Dec 10
I noticed that on one the other day and I thought gosh did the poster even take the time to read my comment but then I turned it around and what I began to do from then on is that if for instance I saw a discussion that you commented on and the poster did not reply to you but did to others, then instead of placing a brand new comment I will go over and place it in your box then you comment back to me and whola my friend you earn more. See you then will be participating yet more and that is what it is about.
Works for me so I think you too can do this as I do see a great many of your responses and you do put a great deal of effort towards it so why not.
See you around. 
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
29 Dec 10
Thank you about that kind words HardWorking, am i willing to ask you something, but i never can find the place for that question .. I remember long ago, when i made my registration, you were one of my favorite nicknames and i checked your responses everywhere, so i wonder were you with around 3000 posts 6 months ago?
That's what i remember, sorry if it's wrong
Lately i updated my knowledge here with the help of MysD, around her i learned to write in the little boxes, under the responses 
It's so great that i can share all that with all of you ..
Lately i updated my knowledge here with the help of MysD, around her i learned to write in the little boxes, under the responses It's so great that i can share all that with all of you .. @hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Dec 10
No need to be sorry ever, I have had a great deal of interacting with you. Also mysd is one of my favs here as she is direct and to the point. When I first joined on here, I re-read a great many of her responses, where as members get high strung and get offended and if they really read the response thoroughly they would see she cares very much about the person, as she is trying to help them with learning something.
Thank you so much for my br, and by the way all my posts started during my third month. So in four months this is where all my number have been gained. LOL.. So I am a pretty busy working girl.
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No need to thank me, i got great time seeing you around too 
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
28 Dec 10
I have never had any discussions which didn't get any responses. I guess I am lucky on that one. It is hard coming up with good topics, and that is why I don't start all that many discussions. Some of my discussions have lots of responses, and others not so much. It really all depends on the discussion itse and happy mylotting.I have never had any discussions which didn't get any responses. I guess I am lucky on that one. It is hard coming up with good topics, and that is why I don't start all that many discussions. Some of my discussions have lots of responses, and others not so much. It really all depends on the discussion itse and happy mylotting.I have never had any discussions which didn't get any responses. I guess I am lucky on that one. It is hard coming up with good topics, and that is why I don't start all that many discussions. Some of my discussions have lots of responses, and others not so much. It really all depends on the discussion itse and happy mylotting.I have never had any discussions which didn't get any responses. I guess I am lucky on that one. It is hard coming up with good topics, and that is why I don't start all that many discussions. Some of my discussions have lots of responses, and others not so much. It really all depends on the discussion itse and happy mylotting.
I have never had any discussions which didn't get any responses. I guess I am lucky on that one. It is hard coming up with good topics, and that is why I don't start all that many discussions. Some of my discussions have lots of responses, and others not so much. It really all depends on the discussion itse and happy mylotting.I have never had any discussions which didn't get any responses. I guess I am lucky on that one. It is hard coming up with good topics, and that is why I don't start all that many discussions. Some of my discussions have lots of responses, and others not so much. It really all depends on the discussion itse and happy mylotting.I have never had any discussions which didn't get any responses. I guess I am lucky on that one. It is hard coming up with good topics, and that is why I don't start all that many discussions. Some of my discussions have lots of responses, and others not so much. It really all depends on the discussion itse and happy mylotting.@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
28 Dec 10
Actually it looks like i have to re read what i wrote, because this discussion is not about "discussions without responses", but for "responses without answers from the poster of the discussion".
And it seems to me that you have wrote everything 3 or more times, every sentence again and again 
And it seems to me that you have wrote everything 3 or more times, every sentence again and again 1 person likes this
@rosekiss (30380)
• Eugene, Oregon
28 Dec 10
I may have rad it wrong as well. I do think that there are some that won't comment back to responses, as they think they can earn without even commenting, not realizing that they only earn for what they do and not what others do. I do apologize for my other post, if it didn't apply to the discussion.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
30 Dec 10
I feel the same. I feel that I should say something to all that respond to my discussions. But sometimes, I come across people who just put in one-liners. Although it ticks me off a bit, I try to comment and 'educate' them about how to respond correctly, and how to make their responses count.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
30 Dec 10
I don't like one liners too. Sometimes i see that kind of people even if my friends - they put one or two lines as posts, at the same time they respond to more discussions. I'm wondering is it right that way .... I respond to less discussions, but i like to feel the spirit of the discussion.
@sender621 (14894)
• United States
29 Dec 10
No response can be disxouraging to a discussion. Dpn't despair. that just means the time wasn't right yet for that great response! @ankster (273)
• India
29 Dec 10
I feel disappointed when I dont get the response.But then its ok we cannot force anyone to respond.But yes when I Get response I feel very happy.I definitely thank the person who has responded me back..Its a Good gesture to show respect to the person who has valued your words and shown importance to what you have written.
@joystick (1675)
•
29 Dec 10
I think it all depends on if a person is interested in what you are starting a discussion up about.I know that i have had good luck as people have responded to my discussions that i have started.I try to respond to people that have not had a response as well as peoples discussions that are new people on here.There are a few discussions that i can not answer as i do not have a clue what they are on about.
@Blacksun310 (559)
• Philippines
29 Dec 10
If nobody responds to my discussion, I'll be able know what are the myLotters' interests. Whatever the topic of the discussion without a response should be forgotten. It is better to understand what people around you likes to talk about.
@Suggar (3606)
• Bulgaria
29 Dec 10
It's not about topics without answers here 
It's about when you respond to someone and he doesn't answer to your response how do you feel? As example i answered to only some of my responders here in my own discussion, not to all and imagine that you haven't received post from me?
It's about when you respond to someone and he doesn't answer to your response how do you feel? As example i answered to only some of my responders here in my own discussion, not to all and imagine that you haven't received post from me? 