Unfaithful

@pit33pit (534)
Indonesia
December 29, 2010 9:37pm CST
if that happens in your relationship, what action you take?
14 responses
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
30 Dec 10
My partner won't ever be unfaithful. He loves me to much.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
congratulations to you and your partner
@buggles64 (2709)
• United States
30 Dec 10
Thank you :)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
I don't accept any reasons for cheating..If that happens I'll surely call it quits. The only perception I have in a relationship is, he done it once he can always do it as much as he want to just because you let him slip from the first cheating so why let it break you again...
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
very good, if there are the first there must be a sequel.
• United States
30 Dec 10
This is quite easy to answer as my boyfriend and I are committed to one another and I have faith this would not happen. However if there is aver a probable it would be easy for me to get rid and be done. I have been in this situation before with my ex husband and believe me will never do that again.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
very good, a very important commitment.
@janron29 (266)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
I am having a long distance relationship with my husband. He is working abroad. If that happens to me (God forbid) that he will commit infidelity, I will let him choose between his mistress and his family. I always tells him that if the time would come that he is not happy with our relationship, I will let him go even if it hurts me.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
you have a heart that is very roomy, salute to you. what about of sense of having no attempt to defend it?
• United States
30 Dec 10
I think in any circumstance where cheating is involved there need to be actions taken. I wouldnt in all circumstances just leave the person but it would depend strongly on the situation and the particular relationship
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
careful consideration is needed before acting, a good opinion. thanks
@mikyle (45)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
I always say when my guy cheats on me that's unforgivable and I'm gonna leave him in a snap! But yeah, I think it depends.. I think you have to assess the situation first and think for a while..before making the decision to make it or to really break it.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
good opinion, do not rush a decision.
• United States
30 Dec 10
If my partner cheated on me I would most likely leave him. I hate cheaters, and I don't believe there are reasons for doing it. If you're unhappy in a relationship, end it, don't cheat. I don't believe that an affair should ever result in murder (affairs are great motives for murder in movies)...they just aren't equal 'crimes.' But yeah, I'd leave the jerk.
@pit33pit (534)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
no cheating spouse is a good attitude, I agree completely.
@lenapoo (678)
• United States
31 Dec 10
honestly, i dont think that I can give you a definite answer as to what I would do in a situation where my partner is being unfaithful....I believe that my REACTION would soley be based on what is being brought to my attention....For me to catch the person in the act may result in me doing something that would prevent me from thinking of the long term consequences less than the here-and-now....Hearing aboit it or being confessed to about infidelity is a totally different story...I pressume that I would consider reconciliation, but seperation would be the main issue @ hand which would help me to come to a reasonable resolution to such a heartbreaking conflict...
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
31 Dec 10
Ill see them both in court.
@DYAMIGA (64)
• Philippines
30 Dec 10
leave and move on...cant do nothing from cheater all they give are heartaches and pain...better off without cheaters
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 10
I really do not understand yourself. actually you are talking about in this discussion there is no article / definition of story, but you just directly ask questions that can not understand other people.
@sameer786 (832)
30 Dec 10
I think seperation is the only option.
@leksie (3)
1 Jan 11
confront him and break up with him if we can't fix this.
@reinykwan (350)
• Indonesia
26 Aug 11
try to get the faithful, it's hard but possible to do ;)