What do you feel when your spouse fight with their siblings?

Bangalore, India
December 31, 2010 11:31am CST
Hi friends.. Its a common thing that each and every one fight with their siblings for silly things .. But what do you feel when your spouse fight with their siblings or what your spouse feel when you fight with your siblings.. In my case we both dont worry much when we fight with our siblings because we feel its common because we done this since from our childhood.. Please share your experiences..
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@daliaj (5674)
• India
2 Jan 11
My spouse only has one sister and he doesn't fight with her whatever she does to him. So, the matter of fighting doesn't occur. I fight with my siblings once in a while, but it is not a serious fight. I get mad at my brother if he doesn't get good grades and I always forces him to study well which irritates him a lot. So, it doesn't really matter to me. My husband doesn't interfere when I fight with my siblings.
• Bangalore, India
4 Jan 11
Hi daliaj.. yes we always bother more about our younger siblings marks.. I too was doing that when my sister was studying.. even now I keep advising her and she gets irritated for few things and we fight..
• India
1 Jan 11
Yeah it is common when we fight with our siblings but my husband makes a big issue when I have some tiff with my siblings. He says we are immature fighting over silly matters which should not be encouraged so on and so forth. But when he is annoyed with his siblings he stops talking to them for a long time and does not exactly fight with them. Wish you a very Happy new year and happy mylotting.
• Bangalore, India
4 Jan 11
Hi bewitched.. stopping talks with siblings for long time is really bad.. its just a common thing with all of them to fight with their siblings because we are addicted for that from childhood.. Happy New Year and Happy Mylotting..
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
1 Jan 11
Hi dear I haven’t seen the same dear. My hubby is the youngest one so he is so special for his siblings. If there any find fight in between siblings and spouses are advised to stay away from the fight. They will sort out themselves and will be friends again.
• Bangalore, India
4 Jan 11
Hi sree.. Thats great dear your hubby is youngest and special to his siblings.. my hubby is 3rd one he has 2 elder and 1 younger siblings.. They fight a lot sometimes like kids.. I always stay away from their fights..
@vicereine (451)
• United States
31 Dec 10
Great topic, I actually just had this happen two days ago. My bf's sisters and mom were in town and all they did was fight with each other the whole time. It makes me feel so awkward and I can't really say anything because I don't want them to turn on me and bring me in on the fight. The worst thing was that it was in public and i was so humiliated. When we got home I told my bf about it and that he had better talk to his family and he should behave better because it is really rude and embarrassing for me to be with them while they are causing such a scene. Hopefully he will speak with them but who knows.
• Bangalore, India
1 Jan 11
hi vicereine.. Though it looks awkward dont interfere in the fight.. because the fight between siblings will never lasst for long time.. so its better for us to be quite so that they will settle the issue themselves..
• India
31 Dec 10
Fight is common between the siblings. Even I too don't worry about that. Siblings fight is only for 10 mts. Then they will be togather.
• Bangalore, India
1 Jan 11
Hi jackjill.. you are right.. such fights are common and we should not interfere when our spouse fighting with their siblings..