Mylot Friend

Philippines
January 3, 2011 3:25pm CST
When I was starting here in Mylot, I thought it was going to be difficult for me to have friends here. I was in great dilemma as to how and what to do in order to have firends I could interact here. Despite facing an uncertainties, I posted topics. And Viola! Someone responded and even sent a friends request to me. I was honoured and thrilled seeing him in frinds' list. He was th very first lotter who became friends with me. I thought we are going to be best friends here. His name was Samson. How can I forget? How about you, do you recall your very first Mylot friend? :)
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13 responses
• United States
3 Jan 11
Absolutely how can I ever forget her. This one really super myLot friend sent me the request and I felt so honored as I came here alone without friends. This young lady has been more then a myLot friend as she has posted some of my work on her blogs and promotes them for me. I will forever remember how helpful and inspiring she has been to me as I had freshly lost my job and when I tell you the PM with suggestion, after suggestions came pouring in as to how I can earn to survive. I owe my independent contracting work daring all to her. I also appreciate a great many others who are not friends who interact with me daily, (eurekafemme)
• United States
3 Jan 11
Absolutely, I also appreciate friends as yourself who interact daily. I so enjoy learning new and more different ways of looking at matters. As I must not fail to mention that you have inspired me to read and re-read discussions, responses, such as to listen more carefully to others off-line as sometimes, from a great deal of interactions with you I have learned that sometimes we can jump to conclusions, when all along we were truly not understanding. Thank you my friend.
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• United States
4 Jan 11
That cute baby girl of yours is cute as pudding pie. I do not even have to look at the user Id to know it is you. So cute God Bless her.
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hi my friend hardworkinggurl! You may not be my first friend I met here in mylot but you are one of my good friends that I treasure here! This is really one good thing in mylot,I was able to meet and gain good people! See you around friend!
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hello my friend! Nice to see you again! I cannot forget my very first friend who helped me out in making my preferences and profile here in mylot. She is also a fellow Filipina. She even taught me some tips on how to earn here. Sadly,it seems that she is not active anymore 'cause I'm not seeing her.I wish one day,I would be able to see her again and reply to her discussions. You are one of my good friends here eurekafemme,thanks for being here! See yah!
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hi there, Mtrguanlao. Oh, it is a pity that she is no longer active here, but,i isn't it great that she had helped you find your ways here in Mylot. Yes, though some of our old friends are seem gone but we still do hold them dear in our hearts. I believe it is because they came when we needed them the most. You are also one of the lotters that I consider as a good friend though I have only known you for a couple of days but I like you the first time I saw your avatar.. Oh, it must be the mother in me who is talking. :0 Tha nk you ,dear, for always showing up and giving your support. :)
• United States
4 Jan 11
I can never forget your discussions as they do cause for great many responses. Keep up the great work my friend.
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• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Thanks my friend and another thanks for always being there in my discussions! Take care!
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
4 Jan 11
Hi! I remember my first friend here on mylot and she encouraged me to write more and more and I kept participating in discussions. She left the mylot in due course and did not re-surface, however, I kept my journey on here on mylot. During my journey, I met some extra ordinary and wonderful friends and you being one of them. I feel proud that you are in my list of friends.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
5 Jan 11
Hi Eureka! You may say so that am returning the favour done to me. I believe it is a kind of chain reaction, where someone does a favour to you and you in turn do a favour to the next person. I love to encourage my friends here and I make it a point to respond to their posts. You should not have any doubt about quality of your discussions, you start interesting and meaningful discussions and regardless of total number of responses, whatever responses you get, they make your discussion more interesting. Keep it up! Mylotters like you keep the flame glowing. Deepak
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hi, dear. I'm glad to see you here again. :) And, I think you are just returning the favor or passing the favor forward with what she did to you. I remember when I was starting out here, you also encouraged and motivated me to keep on writing and sharing. I can still pretty remember those kinds words you have given me,which sometimes I'd often took as compliments. You did a great job, dear, because here I am still trying my best to post a discussion which I hope would be interesting enough to respond to.:) I am honoured as well as flattered to have you as a friend, too, Deepak.
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• Philippines
5 Jan 11
That is something I like about you, dear, you never cease to give me encouragement and 'inspiration'. I am convinced that Mylot is a site of good hearted people regardless of our backgrounds and beliefs. That's why as much as possible I am trying to be the best person that I can be here in order not to disappoint my friends. As for my discussion, meaningful they are indeed. How couldn't they be when I am always ranting and venting out my pains and frustrations. Thanks to my friends who never tired of bearing with me always.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
4 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. My first friend here was sunny. And boy did that one drive me nuts sometimes. But i learned a lot from him. Good to have friends here you can depend on when joining a new site. TATA.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 11
Hello saphy, you have put it right that mylot friends, I mean majority of them very trustworthy and you can depend on them. Though we might not be meeting at all in real life this virtual friendship would ever be there.
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hello, Saphy, dear. Oh, I know Sunny. I responded to some of his discussion and I think he is also amongst my friends here. I like the way you, two are 'talking ' to each other here. It shows that you have established a deeper friendship. :) Does he still has that sexy avatar? Friends are always something we can be grateful of.:) And I'm grateful I have a friend in you. :)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Krajibg. I now realized that we don't need to see our friends face to face in order for us to feel if they are real or not. Sometimes our virtual friends are more trustworthy and sincere than those we have closer contacts with.
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
4 Jan 11
Hi dear, My entry into myLot was quite accidental and even I don't know how I got into myLot. In th case of first friend the story is the same for you and me are the same. Initially I was got confused on what to do. Slowly I got friend request and I asked for friend request also. Both got done. I got to know the track of the things later on. And reached upto here. But I haven't personally contact with my first friend here. Thank-s
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hello Thanks Even if we joined Mylot by accident, at the end we have benefited from it and I guess, we'll continuously benefiting from it. Friends are always handy for lost users like us. Without them ,we will never be able to learn the nitty gritty of Mylot. We must have still groping in he dark without that very first person who lead us the way here.
• Philippines
6 Jan 11
Oh ,dear, I'm sorry for a lot of typo errors. I must have responded to this when I was feeling a little drowsy.My apology, Thanks... Gender is of no question when it comes to friendship not even the statuses. Thanks for dropping by here again.:)
• India
6 Jan 11
Hi dear, Thanks for yoru response. You are true. We got a good friendly relation with all now regardless of who he/she. Nice to talk to you. Thank-s
• United States
4 Jan 11
Ofcourse I definitely remember the first person who befriended me on mylot. It was around the first week after I had joined. Unfortunately for me I really haven't been as active as I would have like to be, I try to discuss and post discussion as often as I can, but I am not as active as most members on this site. I just wish I had more time.
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
Hi there Fabsprecious. It is great that you can still remember him. I can see by the number of post you have that you are just a newbie still. Well, you can keep on trying to post even for just a awhile and try to interact with friends . I hope you can make time. Have a great day.
• Philippines
6 Jan 11
I hope we'll get to see you more of you here. But,if it isn't possible, just don't forget to drop a line from time to time. By the way, I like your avatar.
• United States
5 Jan 11
Thank you, I am really trying to be as active as I can and make as much possible time...
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 11
Hi eurecafemme, What happened to me was the first few days I was just wondering. Did not get what exactly I was supposed to do here. I was about to quit this place but the fourth day I posted a short discussion and there were two response. As for friendship like you I too had got one from the already existing member and later on I stated sending request. Oh yes I very much well remember those two first friends onmylot.
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hi there, Krajibg. You see having friends gives us the security and feeling of belongingness. Actually, without that first person who help us plod along here in Mylot,we will never go this far., nor we will realize and figure out what to do. It is worth having friends.
• United States
3 Jan 11
Eurekafemme- The first person after my husband (as we joined at the same time) to befriend me on here was a very nice man (as we're not supposed to name people by name) I'll just state he's still a friend to me on here and I enjoy his chats. I know he was off for a time due to illness and I was very sad that he was not around. Since then I have made quite a few friends on here and I enjoy their discussions. I also look forward to new friends because I always seem to learn something new on here each day, and new perspectives are always interesting and enjoyable. Namaste-Anora
• United States
3 Jan 11
I am one who does not turn away new friends request for the same reason, I so enjoy the daily interactions as it never ceases to amaze me that each day I find the interactions to be much more enjoyable.
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• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hello, Anora. It is such a nice thing that you and your husband are both members of Mylot.You're still indeed a family even in the virtual world. I'm sorry to hear about your mylot friend. I'm pretty sure that he also had great times talking to you and enjoying your friendship. I hope he will get well soon. Yes, I, too, do not mind accepting friendship from new ones. It is amazing how other people can touch our lives without really knowing who they are. We learn from those friends here and most of what we learned from them have taught them valuable lessons already, so it is seems wise to really listen to what they say.
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hardworkinggurl. We can't afford to be choosy when it comes to our friends. There's no really clear criteria of what makes a good friend so I welcome everybody to my circle.. What would our world be without friends who keep on making our days despite of life's inconvenience.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
I think there would be no way to forget a friend who introduced me this site. I got the chance to know her and invited me here, I find it a lot of fun being a part of discussions here. For me, I found this the best way of self expression. I really owe her a lot, but nothing I can do now but keep informing her how I've been doing here for I think she's no longer active due to her busy work schedule. But I owe her for having this fun and stress reliever as well.
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Hello, SimpleBB You must have missed that great friend of your, huh. Well, I think those kind of people we met are angels sent to us by God. Though they do not last long to stay with us but they have left their prints in our lives that we feel eternally grateful to them. Somehow, God knew that you needed a friend like her to come to a site like this. It is good to have you here, dear.
• United States
4 Jan 11
I don't recall the exact name of my first mylot friend but I do feel blessed. I have several friends on here who take time out of their day to message me when they find a new earning opportunity that really pays. I am disabled and seeking SSD payments. In the meantime I am trying to earn a living from home while living off the small state checks that the government gives. If I had the chance to do a traditional job, I surely would but I battle with a condition that causes fainting from the blood pressure dropping too low when a person sits or stands for an extended period of time. I am under ongoing care with a cardiologist and also have disabling migraines that only respond to shots and phenergan. These knock me out the whole next day so I need something that is flexible. Since I know that SSD sometimes takes years I have a lawyer working on my case and as a backup plan I am taking college classes from home in medical billing and coding and hope to be able to find a job where I can work from home.
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
Hello, Lindahardings I'm not going to say that I feel sorry for your condition because I don't really feel such way for you but rather I admire you for your courage and perseverance Yes, friends, either virtual or personal are blessings. You are indeed blessed to have found real good friends here who are doing their best to help you make both ends meet. Hey, Gos is good, He will provide you with what you need only trust and believe in Him. Things will be fine, you'll see.:)
@visavis (5934)
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Actually in my first time here the person who first ever response in my discussion topic about smallville, I forget his name but his is the one. After that many friends have been added and added till today, so I'm glad very much of having you friends. You are part of my life now and daily activities. See you around
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
It is mazing that you can still remember your first topic. And it was Smallville. Don't you know that I love watching Smallville that even if it was a replay, it really did not matter to me because I 'd watch it anyway.:) Friends give us that feeling that we belong here and that it can boost our confidence and self esteem. Yes, I am so glad that I have wonderful friends here.
@cssiduyz (1053)
• Indonesia
4 Jan 11
if I do not quite remember who my first friend who makes me happy and I am now so do not remember anymore, because I was with him so rarely do the interaction. so I forgot to remember him.
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
That is an irony, Cssiduyz. We are grateful with such friend but we can no longer remember its name...:( Well, who can blame you when it is not that often that you, two were communicating. But it is ok. I know that he did what he had to do when you needed someone to help you out here when you were starting. Friends do come and go but they will surely leave a footprint.
• Belgium
4 Jan 11
I started a discussion on a a way to search. But not just search the web. Every time you searched you saved 2 square metres of rainforest. He was really interested and liked my post. He sent me a friend request. And that was my first friend here as I am new
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
Hello, Tehmoneydude. Welcome aboard to Mylot. From the way your number shows , you haven't here for such a long period of time to forget your friend. Well, you should be grateful to that person who became interested about your topic. Having a common interest is a great way to bond with friends even in the virtual world. Goodluck to you and may you gain more friends here.