Yup it is official, you too my friend are "normal"

@sharone74 (4837)
United States
January 4, 2011 10:42am CST
It can be argued that though "normalcy" is a baseline from which we all stray unless we lack the intellect, immagination, or the connection to life that initiates and facilitates changes and personal growth on a psychological, emotional, and spiritual level. I think that the only way that someone can be utterly "normal" would be if they were an idealized, genetically perfect, psychologically well adjusted newborn of parents who are utterly unremarkably normal and who can provide for a perfect, yet perfectly normal childhood. In other words it ain't happening Jack! No one is perfectly normal, it is our quirks and idiosyncracies which define us and make us who we are both to ourselves and to others around us. If you drink water and breathe air, congratulations you are normal! If you get dressed every day before you leave the house, regardless of personal style, coordination, or ability to accessorize or not, or the time of day that you leave the house congratulations to you, you are normal! If you intend or hope to one day to fall in love with another human being, get married, and have children, congrats, you are normal too. If you worry about money, the future, and your ability to face and conquer the future, you too my friend are normal. If you have a debilitating physical handicap, such as a condition which renders you wheelchair bound, you are still normal, you are challenged by the condition I am sure but does life not throw challenges both large and small at every one of us? Unless you were hatched from an egg, you have a mother and a father, whether you know or like them or not, they do exist. Except in the case of the bird-people you too are normal just like the rest of us. My point is that everyone feels, unique, and uncomfortyably so sometimes, every one has challenges to face and surmount or be defeated by, the options for dealing with lifes challenges are prevail or suffer defeat for all of us. We all want and need the same basic things out of life, and we all came to this world the exact same way, and we will all be leaving it the exact same way; dead. Take the time to celebrate the similarities and the innate things that make us all members of the "family of man" Concentrate as little as possible on the differences or contrasts of persoal styles, or wills, find the commonality in all the people around you and you will get along much more easily and readily through life, rather than mentally setting yourself in opposition with the world because you are "different" or "unique", cause we are all different and unique, that is what makes us all noirmal. What you do with your little recipe of normalcy in the warp and weft of life is much more important than who you may think you are or what you think of the other people around you.
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