Date has questions

Philippines
January 4, 2011 5:25pm CST
What are the questions you encounter spoken by your date? Have you been successful answering those? Is there anything wrong with politely refusing to answer one or two of his/her questions? If there is a question you'd like to ask your date, what will it be?
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@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
5 Jan 11
A person can refuse to answer any question they want. The date may not like it, but there's nothing wrong with it. I like to ask questions about their favorite color, food, music, etc. And some random hypothetical questions. I just try to ask questions that may give me an insight to their personality, lifestyle, interests; basically anything that I believe can help me decide if we really are compatible. I do sometimes ask religious/political questions, but not right away. Those kinds of questions especially are the ones that I don't expect a person to answer. A lot of people feel uncomfortable talking about those sort of things.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
6 Jan 11
I personally don't have any problem talking about those sort of things. However, if the guy wanted to talk about something that I didn't want to talk about, I would say so and if he had any problem with it, then he isn't the guy for me.
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
But what if the handsome guy you like do want to talk about those things? Will you be patient enough for the sake of winning his heart?
@knicnax (2232)
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
I haven't experienced this yet, maybe because I haven't had a proper date, or that I date men who're friends of mine to begin with. Though yes, even if we're friends and we're dating, there still are questions that are bound to come up and I answer them truthfully. I believe that if the guy can't handle something about me, the I'd rather not waste my time. Likewise, I'd ask questions and if I get answers that I can't handle, I won't waste my time either.
• Philippines
5 Jan 11
In short, you will have to reject him once he proved to be a guy you do not want. There it goes, it is impossible for a guy to win the girl's heart if he can't live up to her expectations. Regarding whether guys can accept girls they do not wish I say it is possible while women have insecurity and would reject at the slightest hint of insufficiency.
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@knicnax (2232)
• Philippines
6 Jan 11
it can go both ways. I guy can also stop seeing the girl if he feels that she's not worth his time. Though I must say that people who reject others because of petty expectations is not worth getting into a relationship with. Like for example, if the girl wants the guy to be sporty but found out that the guy is a bit geeky, then the girl rejects the guy because of this, then you're way better without the girl. Same goes for girls. If a guy just wants the girl for her body or something, then it's not worth it at all. You could of course just shrug it off, or give an incomplete story about something you're not comfortable with
• Australia
4 Jan 11
Hi Cowboyofhell, interesting name by the way, but no I don't think there is anything wrong with not answering some questions when you're on a date especially if they are to do with past relationships. Some things are best left unsaid, but I think if I was to ask a question it would be if they were an honest person because I can't stand liars.
• Philippines
4 Jan 11
Great tips. Men will definitely take note of that.