How to find a true, real friend?

It's good to have friends. No man is an island,so we need someone in our life. That is why it is normal people look for friends. Above all,if we really want a true friend, God is the best of all.

At least you have some friends from church and school. I basically have no social life right now and all my friends live far away. However, I did meet a friend who comes by about once a week or so. She's cool and I really enjoy the visit when she does come by.

I think I am in the same boat as you, during my high school years, I barely had friends that lived the same neighborhood per say. Most of my friends were in a driving distance of at least 15 minutes. Where I am currently living, I don't any neighbors which I personally consider friends they are more like acquiantances. I mean I do talk to them, when we're outside in the front yard, but like to visit them inside their homes or vice versa, it is very rear. I graduated from highschool more than 10 years ago, the only contact I have maintained is with maybe one or two friends in which I get with them maybe ever 2 months, other than that I sometimes chat with them online via Facebook, that's about it. The funny part of this is when I was in highschool I was part of the colorguard/band, and I just recently found out that a few of the colorguard/band members are currently living by my neighborhood. And I was telling my husband the band is reuniting in Homestead. Unfortunately I have yet to have to time to see them, but hopefully I will be able to meet up with them on day sooner than later.

i guess you don't really find them.., they find you.., they're like gifts from God given to you in times when you rally need someone by your side..,

I had so many friends since my childhood years and when I grew up. We are still friends. Some of them has already meet new friends but still we see each other but no more hang outs. We only hang out with my best friend who is also my childhood friend.

As the proverb says:It is easy to get treasure;It is hard to find a bosom friend. One of the experience summed up by our predecessors is that a man is known by the company he keeps.

I guess you don't always find out right away if a person is gonna be a true friend or just kind of a hang-out friend. But then again, hang-out friends can be true friends if you build a solid friendship with them. If during those hang-outs, you share yourself with them and they do the same to you. I guess when it comes down to it, finding a real true friend is totally up to you and the person that you want to be friends with.

My actual closest friend lives 1000 miles away from us now because of her husband's job. She is also a very busy woman with her five going on six children. However, I do have some friends here that I do make an effort to spend time with a couple of times a month. I've recently become friends with one girl and she and I hang out on a pretty regular basis. We really have a lot in common and the fact that we have things in common is the reason that we like to spend time with each other.

There is a saying birds of the same feather flock together. We generally find people flocking around us whose interests match with ours. If you are interested in studies you will find studious friends, if you are interested in music you will find friend who are interested in music too. To find a true and real friend you will have to be a true and real friend yourself.

Hello there! It is not that easy to find a real friend. You can easily find and have some you can refer to as a friend in any extent of the so called friendship but rarely can you find someone you can call a "real friend". Time tests the foundation of friendhip and many of us fail to reach the standard of the friendship we have tried to build from the start. Friend don'nt stay. And even if they do, they become disaster sometimes! I think the key in frindship and to sinply become a real one.[b][/b]

My true friends are my sisters. I don't really have a friend outside of my family. I have colleagues or co-workers outside of my family, and I call them social friends. We can hang out and have fun but not really share the most important feelings that I keep to myself. I found out that I can trust my sisters so they became my friends. Finding a true friend is hard. But it doesn't mean I can't find a true friend outside of my family, I just have to look for that person. But at the present time I am satisfied with my true friends. The fewer the better. Good luck with your search for a friend.

Good friends or good friendship everything takes some time. Within hours you cant find good frnds. and ofcourse friendship depends on certain things. Like, how much dependable you r, how trustworthy, honest you r...all these factors really matters. And also one more thing matter some times..."incidents". Certain incidents happen in our life which gives us good frnds. I remeber, with one girl I used to stay in hostel. I nvr liked her. Because may be I have nvr tried to know her. Then slowly we were becoming frnds. Then one very bad incident happened in our city. That time we both were present there and that incident made us to get closer to each other and we became very very good frnds.