What would you do if you have heart - broken?

i have just had my heart well and truly broken. a few days ago i was thinking revenge but now i just want to move and never talk to him again. i am better then him and i do not need to be has low as him. i will never forgive him ever! but in time i hope my heart will heal and not ach like it is now. will i love again? i doubt it the way i feel right now i never want to go thro again. but my plan is just to move on and forget him

I think better you start searching for other girl/boy...just busy yourself like travel,sport or whatever that make you busy so you can forget him/her

I mean there's really nothing one can do.. We may have all, at one time or another, experienced the pain of heartbreak. It is never pleasant. Still the thing to do is grieve. People will tell you all types of things to get your mind off your pain, which is good. Ultimately you just have to deal with your pain and get him/her out of you mind. And how do I know these things? Not too far in the past I too had to deal with that heartache. I had to deal with that hurt and she truly tried to hurt me emotionally after we split. It was a very unhealthy relationship to begin with and an even more painful seperation.. I did a lot of meditating and soul searching. I remember having to remind myself of my own worth and knew one day I would be better off having gone through that hurt. Staying busy helped a lot. Making money is theraputic for me so that helped and the knowledge that I was the one who was wronged in that relationship. She didn't deserve me and once I truly realized that was I able to grow above all that. It is not an easy thing though, ever. I felt betrayed but as I look back on it all I am better for the experience, and definitely much more wiser.

It can be both sad and depressing to have the heart get broken. It isn't something that anyone should look forward to or expect. when it does come, we just have to accept it as a part of life. Moving on and looking forward is the best thing we can do.

hi, well, i have been experienced how many times in my life, its really hard to escape your feelings when you are heart broken, i never think to revenge, instead i accept it, i was rugged when sometimes when i am heart broken. i just buy what i want and eat a lot of food just to forget it.

First don't make yourself a martir. Second there are no shortcuts to forget it needs time like a cut to heal. And instead of doing like everybody do about this things they keep talking and speaking about it it only makes it worst go and do something funny listen heavy metal that kind of stuff dont keep punishing urself and live ur life too. that is my advice

Time heal all wounds and it is not easy that days goes by and you still feel the pain. You can't forget or feel numb because the healing process is not that way, it is gradual. We can only do so much to help ourselves. In my case, I just try to live normally and hide my pain because I know the people who loves me will feel sad and worried for me. I try to eat as much as I could to not lose weight since I tend to do so if I have a problem especially regarding heart matters. I try to be with company of my friends and family so that I will avoid thinking to much. Having a heart broken is definitely hard but it will get by.

Sometimes, people really need to make a stand. There's still that fine line between being a push-over and being a good lover... and when your heart's been scarred from all the blows, I think it's about time to call it quits. It just means that it wasn't meant to be... and who knows? You'll find someone else more worth your love than your previous.