how will you know?

@tiina05 (2317)
Philippines
January 9, 2011 5:32pm CST
hello everyone, I just want to ask something if how will you know if people are talking about you when you are not around? it is like a back fighter?,, thanks ,, have a nice day ..
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7 responses
sql_cell
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 11
I do not want to know or find out, other people talking about me or not. I do not want preoccupied with things like that. If other people talk about me, I do not care. As long as they are talking about, do not disturb my work.
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sql_cell
@sql_cell (1427)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 11
It really is a waste of time, serving people who talk about me. Better used to work.
tiina05
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
hello thanks for your response, Well, Maybe you are aware with in it. but you dont want to notice it because for you it a waste of time. right? that is really good for you. don't get people ruin your life. LOL
Bianca_mergillano
@Bianca_mergillano (1067)
• Philippines
9 Jan 11
Good Day! I've experienced that kind of situation. how did I know? Well, here's the story. I'm with my 3 friends and they started the topic about my other friend who's not around. Then I usually noticed that when one of our friends are not around, they're talking about them so I can feel that they're also talking about me when I'm not around. Well, I found it out. Its true that they're also talking about me. For strangers, I can say that they talk about you when you passed and they stare at you. That's my own opinion.
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tiina05
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
hello thanks for you response, hey! i hate those friends like that. I don't like it that is why I am really careful choosing goodfriend because I already learned from my mistakes. how about you did you leave them? or you still stay with them and join?. I am a good friend really true, I don't like those people talking about my friend. or talking me behind my back. right?
suguwillu
@suguwillu (113)
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10 Jan 11
hi, i do have same situation once. when i ignored that and resisted them not to speak about anyone who is absent you know, i lost all of them. they all hate me and now i am alone with out any friends.
topffer
@topffer (42156)
• France
10 Jan 11
I never mind. When they are not present, I am speaking of my friends only to say good things about them or taking some news. If somebody says a piece of gossip about a friend, I distance with him/her. When your friends are fair, you have nothing to fear.
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suguwillu
@suguwillu (113)
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10 Jan 11
hi, thats nice. but when you come to know that they all do speak about me then i can not tolarate my emotional feelings.
suguwillu
@suguwillu (113)
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10 Jan 11
ya getting hurt is so easy in this case.
suguwillu
@suguwillu (113)
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10 Jan 11
hi, yes it is difficult when people talk about us when we are not there. and that you will know when you meet them the reaction and the behaviour will be changed.
ysao02
@ysao02 (5)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
you'll just now. but, do not pay any attention to it anymore. just enjoy.
suguwillu
@suguwillu (113)
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10 Jan 11
how can we control the tension. yesturday my sis in law came to my nighbourand did not come to my home. my husband was so angry and called her. she was so easy and cool. i was so tensed and could not control my tonghue.
Jane
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
If you've done something wrong,you are always feeling guilty that people are talking at your back. If you've done something good...people won't talk at your back...but will congratulate you and never care if you hear them talking about your good deeds. That's it...as simple as that. So,it's up to you to think if people are talking about you when you are not around,what will be the reason why they talk about you. Have a good day