What do you do if you're jealous?

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
January 10, 2011 12:08am CST
If you're jealous, what would you do about your lover? And how do you not become a jealous?
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9 responses
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 11
so I Advised to equal all the people who landed on his chest again to enjoy the feeling of jealousy that was before he went like a butterfly dancing on a rug beautiful
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
11 Jan 11
sound like a poem?
@krieyszel (330)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
I gets very jealous easily.When I saw my boyfriend very texting and I didn't know that person his talking with.When I saw him having conversation to those girls and just to look at the girl who just pass by especially if that woman is sexy and pretty.I am a selfish girlfriend,I know it's not that good but when I loved I gave everything and all my heart and soul.That's why I don't want to get hurt and the person I loved will fade his love for me,I am really afraid that to happen.I know,it's part and natural I can't avoid that situation no matter how I tried to escape. When I get jealous I really nagged him and shout loud of him.But when I can't feel any security and assurance that his feeling for me may be about to gone.I just simply be quite and just let him to talk.I just cried telling him how much I loved him and why do this such a things. I wanted my boyfriends all time and attention will be mine nothing but mine. I just want a simple thing,he will not make things that could make me jealous.I know,he can If really concern with my feelings and don't want me to get hurt.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
I miss discussions like this. When I was a bit younger, I don't tell my partner that I'm jealous. I hide my emotions because I don't want him to think that I'm that in love to him. Now, I'm very much transparent. I tell him everything.
@pogi253 (1586)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
It is one thing to be well-informed that jealousy is bad for a relationship and for self-development; it is another to not give in to it. There are various reasons why we feel jealous, be it jealousy of someone else accomplishment or jealousy of your love ones physical or emotional relationship with others. At its very core, jealousy is just another form of fear, or more accurately, it is a division of it. Fear, on the other hand, can be conquering with the spirit of courage. Having said that, one should not misinterpret that courage is the nonappearance of fear. This is why methods for overcoming fear could be used to conquer jealousy. It is easy that our minds tend to stray away from what is significant. Take fear for an example. The further we try to tell ourselves not to be afraid of something, the further we are cowering in fear. If jealousy happen out of trust issues, it is hard to just remind ourselves that “I must trust my partner”. Therefore, focus on the little things, such as all the good little memories that you share, and all the incidents that would rationalize trusting him. Even though the big reason why you trust your partner is “because you love him”, it is essential for you to have many small reminders to keep your mind optimistic. Photos are good examples of small reminders. To put it basically, jealousy can be dealt with effortlessly through acknowledgement, argument, and reinforcement.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
13 Jan 11
I always remember, the fire of jealousy do not burn my common sense.,. investigate his past reality, and always wise in taking the attitude though at first heavy and so eat the heart. because it really is where real love is embodied in the sacrifice.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Jan 11
hi, of course the next to jealous is accepting and understanding, some people jealous because of their way of thinking, and its created by what they feel and seen. so still self-stem is really important for a person.
• Philippines
10 Jan 11
Good Day! Whenever I got jealous, I tell him. I tell him that I'm jealous and he must stop doing those things that can make me feel jealous. I don't easily get jealous when there's nothing to be jealous of but if there's, I really got mad. I can't help myself. Well, another thing, I do things to make my partner impressed so that he wouldn't look at someone else. :)
• Indonesia
10 Jan 11
In courting attitude believe trust, an affectionate love comity and mutual respect to help each other if you you can not feel the basic attitudes of the above then you do not believe you do not appreciate you not able to look to its sincerity. test you should not become a standard that unfortunately, your test purposes only make the gap and bring trouble to both of you, is there any you do not believe it, or you like to find fault with your girlfriend, you love to make a row
• Malaysia
10 Jan 11
I think jealousy happens due to lack of trust. I will try not to get my emotion to take control over me, and try to earn her trust and let her earn my trust by getting along more often. You don't see a couple that are truthful to each other get jealous right? Haha, just my thoughts, not really having great experience in relationship. If you do have a point on my idea, please do share too!