Love

January 10, 2011 9:24am CST
How do I make her understand how much I love her.I have known this girl for a long time now and I have been trying to win her love but all my efforts has fail. I need your advice please.
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9 responses
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
10 Jan 11
I can suggest you some important points.... --First you have to know about her family position, family members, about her father mainly. --You have to know "what is her interesting topic/fiel?" --You have to wait for a good time to express her feelings, If a girl can believe you, one day definitely she should explore her feelings with you alone. That day you heart fly in colours. --Share true love and faith with her. Don't play any tactics... (These are the main factor, although if she had already in love with others, you can't do...)
• India
10 Jan 11
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@Messyrax (147)
14 Jan 11
i think we dont force love to grow. it just grows by itself. you have fallen in love with that girl and seems that you are ready to do anything to have her. well, has she fallen in love with you? that you will have to know yourself. maybe when you say you have tried everything, you really dont mean it because i dont think you have faced her and told the 3 words "I LOVE YOU" face to face. do that maybe for three times and if she turns you down in those three times then you have to forget her. remember after the first trial maybe you wait for 6 months trying to prove what you said to her then make the second trial
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
14 Jan 11
Personally I think it could be time if you have really tried to let her know by telling her you Love her, and showing her by maybe bringing her flowers or candy, and just showing her your Love and she is not receptive of it, and does not choose to Love you back, maybe it is time to let her go and move onto someone else. This does not mean you have to stop being her friend or anything like that, but sometimes a person does not want anything more than a friendship and there needs to be a time when you can find that "OK".
@sunnycool (12714)
• India
12 Jan 11
Dude,you should let her go if ---- you aren't loving her truly,you do not feel like living with her for the rest of your life.And what the heck you are doing here? Its your love so you got to win it than to seek others opinion!Just be yourself ... you would get her for sure provided if you're loving her with a plain heart with no bad intentions! As of the barking theory --- Yeah why bark at stinking trees lol if we can find sandal wood trees around.Kaminis think themseleves to be some sort of miss universes with no crowns
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
If despite all your efforts of winning her love you still fail , then probably it's time to give up. Do not focus your attention on her. Look for some girls who can love you back too.
11 Jan 11
Augustine my friend, if love with this girl had existed then your call for help would have been different. Although not knowing all the details that surrounds this situation, i can safely say "forget about it!!!" She will make you lose yourself in the worst way... and you and the people who love you will hate the person you've become. Its gonna be hard to let go because its LOVE, but in a relationship it takes two to LOVE... and your alone where this girl is concerned. Let go bro and don't stay to yourself when you decide to (get out and have fun, you will need sometime to get back to your zone.
@fake_you (391)
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
I agree with the first person to comment. (sorry I forgot to look at the name) Anyway, I also believe that you just have to stop what you're doing. If everything you've tried hasn't worked, it's time to let it go. For if she says yes only because she wants to give you a chance to love her, it's not real love. It's might just happen because she pities you. Better look for a different person to love. Whatever you do, it might not be enough for her to love you back.
• Philippines
11 Jan 11
Good Day! Well, if you really like him, you just have to prove it and do your best to make her fall in love to you but if you had try your best and none of them worked, you must know the qualities that she likes in a guy so that you'll know what to do but if it didn't work then you must stop and look for someone else. Don't feel desperate. There are so many fishes in the sea. :)
• United States
10 Jan 11
It sounds like you have tried many things for a long time. If that is the case I think you should let it go. I have had several guy friends that tried for years to get my love and it just was not going to work as I was not interested. They tried everything possible and wore themselves out trying. One of those guy friends had their soul mate right under their nose but did not notice it because he kept chasing me and putting all of his efforts into me. If your efforts has not worked by now they are more than likely not going to work.