How do you fall in love again with thesame person that you fall out of love with
By celeste2224
@celeste2224 (160)
Philippines
January 14, 2011 12:25am CST
I have this major dilemma since last year.I fell out of love with the person whom I think I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with...things have changed between US, but we are still together, He is the father of my son. I have this dilemma since I felt something odd, I don't feel the same way for him, so I left him with our son and went away for awhile to find myself, and the HARD TRUTH is he knows that I fell out of love, whats good is that He was open with it, and i really felt the love that he has for me, He doesnt want to give Me up although I wanted him to give up on me,but he never did, after how many months of being not with him I finally realize that I have to do somthing, I have to revive the feelings that I have for him before...and so I came back with hopes high and thats everything's gonna be fine with US and now I wanted to ask all of you out there, HOW DO I FALL IN LOVE AGAIN with the same person that I fall out of love with? Thank you...
3 responses
@nereidiane024 (292)
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
hello there celeste!
hmmm, just want to ask you, how come you have fallen in love without your husband without any reason at all? or you just woke up one morning feeling emptiness towards him? if that would be the case, woking up without love with him, its really hard to deal, since youre not feeling the same way than before.
but if you had been with a reason, let say you've found another one whom you had felt excitement, that would easy for you to leave him with your son and go out with their life for how many months. but still you will still find yourself going back with them, coz its where you really belong. are you familiar with the saying, home is where heart is. your heart belongs with them, thats why you had come back for them to love them. im proud to your husband that no matter you had done with them, especially to him, he still accepted you. he's worth it to be loved.
i hope youll be happy to your home. :)
@celeste2224 (160)
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
Hi! I have reasons why but I dont want to reveal it here, its not that I woke up one day and felt that I dont love him anymore,it happened gradually and I didn't notice it. I am really proud of him, we are not married though, yes you are right I guess I realized that I just cant leave him, I have to think of my son too,he loves his father so much and it would be so selfish of me to take him away from him. I know that I can able to bring back the love lost and he knows that too. Thank you so much! I hope I can have more responses like yours to ponder from.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
14 Jan 11
Try to see the person as he was the first time you met him. Try to remember all those happy moments you shared together. Remember his good sides and what he had done for you. Most of all, think him as the father of your son, how good a family all of the three of you. If all fail then I guess it's better to put an end of this relationship and let go of everything, and find a new life for you and your son!
