Do you hate someone in mylot?I mean seriously..Do you?

@insulin (2479)
Philippines
January 15, 2011 8:55am CST
Have you ever try to have enemy on here?I know there are members that's almost here everyday and do have close friends but how about enemies or let say you don't like him or her?Hahaha if you hate someone better don't include their names here.Lol Just wanna know.So far,I don't hate anybody here...
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47 responses
• Malaysia
15 Jan 11
Nope, I had never encountered anyone that i hate here in MyLot. Everyone seems very nice and helpful in discussing each topic started by any user and i am very glad for it. =)
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@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
That's great to be eddy.:-) Some do have enemies around.
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
I agree with you that they exist everywhere anytime and yeah,we can prevent to have enemy and the key is patience.
• Malaysia
15 Jan 11
Enemies exist whenever you and the other person have disagreements. A simple tolerance can lock all hell from lose. Patient is virtue... Anyone can prevent from having enemy. Thats what i thought, do you agree?
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@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
15 Jan 11
Hi insulin, Like you have put, I too feel bad when people sometime come upon quite nasty. I have had exchange of heated arguments also. I have observed that even in the cyber world you get stress and anxiety. There for now I take so much of things for granted and move on. I do not like some people but I do not hate any one. After all this is a big house with many inmates.
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@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
Hi krajibg,what's worst in the cyber world when having arguments is,you can punch lol.It's much more stressy in the real world hahaha.Just don't keep it,just let it go and everything will be fine.Just thing these bunch of people are teddy bears...
@ElicBxn (63233)
• United States
15 Jan 11
No, I don't think so, but there have been a few that annoyed me
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@silvercoin (2101)
• Lithuania
15 Jan 11
Yes I do,why should I pretend that I don't?I know that person very well and our conflict started at the very beginning, I think.The funniest part is that we're still Mylot friends, aren't we, girl?And she will comment on this discussion if she's brave enough.I'm waiting.
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
Lol I never except this but yeah your right why deny and pretend?hahaha I wonder who's that person is.I am having 50/50 thoughts if she will response do this discussion.
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
I am thinking she will but maybe she will pretend.I'm not sure.
• Lithuania
15 Jan 11
I bet she won't!
@topffer (42156)
• France
15 Jan 11
"Have you ever try to have enemy on here ?" No, but accidentally, I should have made some : last March and April I targeted an interest where I wanted to be the last as a personal challenge -- you must have a goal in life --. I did not managed to be the last, because of a parameter that I had forgotten -- members adding this interest are placed at the end of the list --, and I stopped when I realized that I was able to make some enemies . Here and in real life, I try to don't make enemies. "Do you hate someone in myLot ?" I read the responses and I am surprised : no hater here ? Personally I hate scammers and plagiarists, but I am not alone : they are banned quickly at myLot, and it is one more reason for me to appreciate and enjoy this site. Have a nice day.
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@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Hi topffer,sorry for the late response,having trouble with my stupid internet provider anyway,I agree with the part that you have those scammers and plagiarists was not thinking about that lol since I'm focus really with the argument of some discussion like religion,you know those sensitive discussions.I'm also happy that yes most of these people trying to destroy the community is immediately banned.
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
I hate nobody here in myLot. I respect whatever their opinions are. Having an enemy even in an internet site is really not a good idea. Why don't we just enjoy myLotting and make new friends? This is not just a website. This is a community. People in a community should be friendly and harmonious. But of course, we cannot avoid getting pissed with someone else. Because there are people who do anything we really hate. Have a nice day!
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
Agree with you Blacksun310,this is not just a site but a harmonious community that's really nice and comfortable to be with.Before when I'm still new here,there are people trying to ruin the forum however they did not manage to win as they got banned immediately.This is what I like here,very harmonious
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@urbandekay (18278)
16 Jan 11
Hmmmm, so many people I haven't annoyed... yet! all the best urban
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@youless (112100)
• Guangzhou, China
15 Jan 11
Seriously, I have never hated anybody here. Although sometimes I may have a different opinions with some people here. And we may even have a serious debate. But I won't hate people just because they have opposite ideas than me. Most people are quite friendly here. I can name a lot of nice Mylotters here, however, I really can't recall anyone who I hate here. I love China
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@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
I agree with you youless,people in mylot are friendly compared to forum site of TRIOND.There's a bunch of A$$ H#LES there that's really making everything personal which is not great at all.
@dloveli (4366)
• United States
16 Jan 11
Honestly I dont put that much into MyLot to hate anyone. I mean Im here alot and I do answer discussions honestly which probably ruffles a few feathers. Ive been here for some time now and you'll notice that most of the responses arent from long timers. this is because we dont come on the site to fight. I am here to help out if I can. I dont sugar coat anything. If you want the truth, Im the one! Hating someone takes to much of my time. I wont deny however, that Ive been extremely irritated by people on MyLot due to a response or question. That's the whole point of MyLot! To discuss things on your mind. If you spend the time taking everything personal you're missing the whole point. Instead of hating them, Debate them. If they have an opinion on something you disagree with call them on it. This is the place to tell them exactly how you feel(within reason). Try to be calm, collective. Then let em have it! Then You wont have time to hate! Hate takes alot out of person. Seriously! It can make you physically ill. Dont do it to yourself. Freedom of speech so let them know exactly how you feel and then MOVE ON!!! Much healthier! Happy MyLotting my friend! dl
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
16 Jan 11
I don't hate anyone anywhere but there are people i don't like on mylot & in real life. I leave people like that alone. wouldn't waste my time on them.
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@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
16 Jan 11
No, I don't have enemies over here in myLot. All are good friends and love to have good friendship with all. There may be difference of opinion but it doesn't mean that we hate or we got enmity with them. In fact, over here there is no chance or the discussion over here do not lead to such circumstances. We are here for friendship and discussion and all and I find no way for such hatred or enmity within myLot. Thank-s
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• South Korea
15 Jan 11
hhmm not really its just that sometimes I get pissed by someone when they are giving rude responses.. but then I always tell myself that they are here to express their opinion..let it be:) forgive and forget..lol
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@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
Oh yess I know what you mean.The RUDE response,I also get irritated by people responding rude in a way they feel like they are only the correct ones in the world but yeah your right,it's their opinion as long it's not getting personal then everything will work fine.
@jujunme (2501)
• United States
15 Jan 11
"Hate " is a very strong word , so no, i can't say i hate anyone here and honestly i don't personally dislike any one person either.However i can say there are 1 or 2 people that aren't friends of mine who constantly respond to religous discussions and do all they can to discourage others who believe in God by making rude comments, especially this one person who acts like he or she knows it all and that really irks me.Sometimes, even though the discussion is not mine i feel i should respond to this person but, then i feel it's just not worth it,since they continue to comment the same way over and over again.
@jordq7 (576)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
Hi there insulin!! As of now I don't have any enemies here in mylot and I don't want to have any.Everytime I post a topic or comment in discussions I am trying my best not to offend anyone or even try to argue in order to avoid conflict.I just dont like have have enemies here coz I am enjoying here in mylot and also I dont want it to be the reason why I will need to leave mylot someday. I think it is not healthy for us to have enemies weather here in mylot or in real life.It is very tiring and sometimes it prevents us from doing what we want.As much as possible I want to make more friends rather than making enemies...
@insulin (2479)
• Philippines
15 Jan 11
I agree with you jordq7.It's unhealthy to have enemies since it will make you feel bad,stress anything that's negative is unhealthy however there are really people that can't control how they will and will argue.I know a lot of people like this and the only best way is to get rid of them.
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
22 Jan 12
Hello there insulin, Hate is a pretty strong word, I don't hate anyone here but I have had a problem with someone here at one time. It was about 2 years ago and I was posting all day long and all of a sudden there was this woman posting nasty comments on my responses. I don't know where she came from or what I ever said to make her mad at me. I read all of her comments to see what I said to make her mad and couldn't figure it out. So after reading about 10 messages from her I contacted mylot by marking abuse on all of her comments. Mylot handled it right away, and I mean in the same day that this happened. They deleted all of her comments and they deleted her profile. They sent me an email telling me they took care of it and it shouldn't happen anymore. About a month later I got this really nasty message again. It was her. She told me right out that she was back under a different name and she would haunt me and stalk me forever. I asked her why she was mad at me and she just cut me down to the ground. I again reported her and mylot again got rid of her and her messages to me. Thank goodness she hasn't been back since. I still don't know what I ever said to her to get her so angry at me. She just wouldn't tell me. Cheers and happy mylotting my friend , chris
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
15 Jan 11
hi insulin Hate is a very strong word and no I do not hate anyone here in mylot. I really have the most wonderful group of mylot friends here I feel a lot of warmth from them.Oh sure I have met some who have made rude remarks but I just let it go as I am not into fighting unless someone is really picking on one of my friends. I am not a person who hates easily as usually one can just write off a rude remark as a difference of opinion but if the person really is insulting I will report him or her to mylot admins and let them decide what to do.I will defend a friend here if he or she is being insulted badly. But I donot like to do that as it can start a mylot war.
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• United States
15 Jan 11
I do not hate anyone here at all. This is one of my favorite sites and I really enjoy all posts and comments even if they are good or bad. If I get a response that is bad it does not make me hate anyone I just feel like maybe I was in the wrong maybe the way I posted it or responded to it.So no I can not say that I do hate anyone here at all. Have a good day!
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@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
For a longer period of my stay here in Mylot, i have never come across a member that i hated or don't like. I just don't find any reason to hate or dislike them. More into having friends than looking for enemies here. After all, we could be having a great time here if we don't look for enemies. ;)
@harry89 (2330)
• India
15 Jan 11
No i dont hate anybody here in mylot. As we are here to discuss different things and make some friends if possible so i dont think that there is any place of hate here. But sometimes someone may get over you and make you mad. This all happens here. Happy mylotting. Regards, harry.
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• India
15 Jan 11
i think der will be no enemies in my lotters !! but i can assure u dat many of dem will be jealous b coz sum one earns more money n sum less itzz upto dem ??? :D so till now i dnt have enemies :D happie my lotting my frndz :D
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