online relationship

Philippines
January 15, 2011 7:58pm CST
hello mylotters, I don't know how should i start this discussion it's about a friend of mine who had an online relationship for more than two (2) years and just last Friday her online boyfriend arrived we are all excited to meet this guy though he is already our friend meeting him personally is really exciting especially when i saw my friend in tears of joy as we know online relationship sometimes doesn't work out but i do hope this is just a start for them , maybe they just met through internet but this can be for real or forever. As i witnessed their love i can say that they are really in love with each other, i know that he will not stay here for a long time but i hope that in due time they will be together . have a beautiful sunday
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9 responses
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Hi there bhaby, Online relationship can be the start of real relationship. This is not a new thing nowadays. If there is penpal during the time of our parents, now there is online and texting. Love really finds a way to bond two people and certainly the internet serves as a bridge between them. Best wishes for both of them.
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
That's the other side of the story and yes it's really happening. Actually I know some who use internet to catch big fish not for love at all. Base on your descriptions I can say love is the real element in your friends relationship. Happy mylotting hehe.
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• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hi lance, Yes that is true but we also know that some relationship doesn't involve love, thanks for your wishes i also think it will turn out good and nothing will change between them. thanks for the response happy posting
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@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
I have heard of this kind of relationships and they all end up marrying each other! Yes,I do believe in online relationships 'cause I too witnessed one. My cousin who happens to meet a foriegner online,met here in Manila and their relationship is still ongoing and working well. The man helped my cousin from her financial problems and nothing to give him in return,it's good to know he really loves her for real! I guess,distance doesn't matter at all in an online relationship. See you around!
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hello mtrgiuanlo, Yeah that is true some of them ended up marrying each other i also have a friends with a story like this and as of now they are happily married and still in love with each other. thanks for the response happy posting
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@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
WOw! that is great and really exciting to see. If they are really inlove to each other and they do that meeting for the first time well even though me i feel great and in tears. Online relationship as they are got to know themselves online and that is very often now is really fun. At this time she will know if she really love this guy and if they are compatible. If this happened and the guy is serious to her as he wanted her to be his wife then much better. So give him first a try. How nice to see them that they are exciting to meet each other. OI wish goodluck to both of them. I believe also at the online relationship or at long distance relationship. Be happy!
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
Hi Mods, I think they are much inlove with each other as i see last time and they both keep me updated the guy keep on saying that he cannpt believe that he is here with the love of his life he even cried . thanks for the wishes and response happy posting
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
bhaby, Let's hope and wish for the best...that's what we can hope for. We knew that this is the second time we witnessed in our life how online love comes in reality. I wish that another one online affair will come soon to reality too. No words come close enough to describe the happiness we've witnessed that day...even if i am too sleepy..i keep my eyes wide awake to witness the "two different world far apart meet in reality" wish next time it would be yours
@jaiho2009 (39140)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
bhaby, as a flower girl?...uhmnn,have a baby and we will when she turns 2 years old for a flower girl... I already meet my online love...it was kept in private since you did not come with me that time (hmnn...you only choose Indians to welcome)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
hi jaiho, Yup let's hope for the best, next time it will be me?hahahha!it will be much better if next time it will be you but i am looking forward for a wedding i want to be a flower girl . happy posting
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
It depends still the situation. or where if they can really make it work, sometimes it takes a lot of tolerance and understanding to make the love last forever. of course, as long as there is love, things are gonna happen so great for them. i hope nothing changes between those two. if there is change, i hope is for the better of their relationship. have a nice day friend.
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• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Hi LK, You are right when it comes to a relastionship like this you should have lot of patience, trust and of course faith, thanks for your wishes for them i am positively looking at their situation . thanks for the response happy posting
@SIMPLYD (90717)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
Wow that was nice to hear. I thought love that blossomed through the net isn't possible. But that proved it wrong. I just hope it will last.
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
hi simplyd, We also want them to have a lasting relationship , thanks for your wishes. thanks for the response happy posting
@dong88 (795)
• China
16 Jan 11
I believe that online relationships.It is the reality,as you like,you like,you do not like you will not like it.
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hi dong88, A relationship like this can be for reall but still it depends on how they will work at this situation, yes it is true that if you don't like then you don't but if you like it then be happy . thanks for the response happy posting
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16 Jan 11
This goes to show that meeting someone online could possibly work, aslong as the effort is put in. Meeting in person also shows that you are truthful about yourself in the way you look,etc. This cannot be hidden if you are to meet in person. Let's be fair, if you are to try and stay in touch often in as many ways as possible and also go and visit your partner then it shows that you are committed to them and that you will do all you can to spend time with them. Ok the money may run out quickly or you may have to get back for work but atleast he went to see her and did something about it, where some people don't. This shows that he really is interested in your friend, let us hope that she to can go and visit him, it is great spending the time together in person rather than always on the computer or on the telephone. Well, it seems that now they have actually met in person that they both seem so happy. Hope one day i could be in a similar situation. Obviously for long distance relationships to work it means that you may have to work that bit harder and maybe make some sacrifices but maybe they are worth it, maybe the person you meet will be the last person as they will become your partner for life, good luck to these two and i truly do hope that it all works out for them.
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
hi craigy, I agree with you exerting effort and continous communication should be in a relationship like this,thanks for the wishes . thanks for the response happy posting
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hello, wow! a very nice love story, maybe they really meant for each other. Well congratulation to them! hmmm yes, I also know that online relationship really wont work at all but your friend prove it to us that it really doesn't matter if it is a long distance relationship as long they love each other truly right?.. LOL LOVE IT.
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hi tina, As i can see they are much in love with each other distance should not be a hindrance in a relationship. thanks for the response happy posting
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