what do you do if your lover is angry/

India
January 16, 2011 12:23am CST
hi friends.... In love often you may come across sweet nothings and silly quarrels. How do you bring your mate cool down when she is heated up on you?
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@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
hello, When my lover gets really mad at me I let him say whatever he wants until he calm down, because If I let him do what he wants he will just stop and the end he will say sorry. And then that will i start kissing him and hugging until the anger will fly away. LOL that's what i do.
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@TwiKnight (107)
• Malaysia
16 Jan 11
Tickle him/ her. Give her chocolates or flowers or anything she likes. If any of this doesn't work, give him/ her time to calm herself down. Usually works for me. :)
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• India
19 Feb 11
the best response for anger anytime is silence. i would just be calm and listen whatever she says.after she has her cool back she would understand what happened.best thing is you should hold your nerve and never get anger when she is anger.
• India
19 Feb 11
yes indeed.........
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Greetings! Well, to cool him down, I just let him say whatever he want to say until he is calm because I know he'll realize what he had done after being angry or mad but if I saw my lover like that, I 'll just tell him to please calm down. It will get worse if he acts like that. We'll try to fix what is wrong. :)
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@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
16 Jan 11
Well, when he is angry, i just apologize to him even of i'm not wrong and try to calm him down just by being with him silently. It will allow him to think a little and he will at the same time realize that i'm with him whatever happens! This works so well for me and many a times, after being quite for a while, he himself asks sorry which i don't really find necessary yet he says it for his satisfaction! It works wonders in our relationship. It even increases our love!
• India
16 Jan 11
it is very nice and icy too hear that. It seems you are in love. isn't it. Making him realize by being silent. And you dont want any sorry from him. rally nice of you....
@shrijsr (574)
• Bangalore, India
16 Jan 11
yeah, i just love him! he is my world! Silence can do wonders in life and i realized that being with him..:) All you my dear friends, do try it and tell me how it feels, i would love to hear it from you if it works well for you too.
• India
21 Feb 11
yes .... i can say one thing. your partner is more lucky than you....cool buddy...
• India
18 Jan 11
The best way i tackle such a situation is by letting speak her heart out and once she has calmed down i sing our favorite song to her as it always brings a smile to her face.. :)
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
16 Jan 11
Give her or him some space and leave them alone if there really angry, but if there only mildly angry, talk it out and see if you can resolve whatever issue that caused the anger in the first place.
@eLsMarie (4346)
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
When he's angry, I shut my mouth up. It's my way of giving him time to think and for him to cool down. I know when he's ready for a nice conversation when he cuddles me.
• Philippines
16 Jan 11
Hello there! When my partner is mad or angry. I go out of the way. I would go somewhere and let him have his own way.
• United States
16 Jan 11
If my hubby is angry I give him space for a bit for him to get to the point he wants to talk about it then I listen to what he has to say and try not to get defensive then we work through it or agree to disagree and move on