How do I deal?

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
January 17, 2011 3:38am CST
How do I deal with people who have high ego, selfishness and do not understand feelings.? I have friends. he's very selfish, he often not listen to me when I'm talking. how do I deal with him?.
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@derek_a (10874)
17 Jan 11
I know people who have big egos and most of the conversation when I meet them is about them. However, I don't see them very often now, except by accident that is! There is an old saying that says, "if you want to keep friends, listen more than you talk".. Good advice perhaps? _Derek
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@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 11
Yea, very good, That old saying is a reflection of my
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@mythociate (21437)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
29 Apr 11
Go to friends who DO listen to you! and/or remember them when you are talking to him (maybe regarding him as a know-nothing in the matter you're concerned about at the time).
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 11
Easy, the weakness of people like that, yes in his own nature. "hit" him was wearing his own nature, if he do not want to listen to others speak fits, wear it back the same way. If necessary, leave him immediately when he wants to talk, let him feel devastated. I do not agree with the terms must be patient with people with nature like with people with nature like patience is the TRUTH.
• Indonesia
18 Jan 11
I replied with a parable, "Precipitation can destroy a hard rock" indeed it will take a long time, but for the good why not? The key is patience to deal with the stone are similar to those made of water. Stone can not be fought with stones, the consequences will be detrimental to both. Be patient with this TONE God bless.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
21 Jan 11
hi, i think you should extend you patience, dont be too rude or rugged if he/she dont listen to you,or even a selfish, make your mind to broad it and dont level it to him/her.
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@anyison (18)
• Nigeria
17 Jan 11
Do yourself a favor by leaving and be a friend in a distance if not you end you having misunderstanding every day
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@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 11
So far I'm always looking for meaning in me, but so far also, I increasingly do not understand.
• Indonesia
18 Jan 11
Do not repay evil with evil, let's say you're learning to be a speaker at the podium, are you sure you listen to people, .. it's okay, you let it go with your attitude so far, not because someone on your bum, you also want to be like him, be careful later will become habits, habits become character and nature will be nature or character of someone, let alone .., .. she is a she, and you are you, .. essence, you are not going to affect people, if not yet can master your own self, be yourself, good personal .., which was nice even though people do not respect us.