Try reading this, what's your reaction?
By gengeni
@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
January 17, 2011 5:37am CST
"Behind the Story of A Father"
Typically, for a girl of full age, who were working outside the city, who joined her husband wander outside the city or abroad, who were at school or college away from her parents .....
Will often feel very missed by her mother.
And what about Dad?
Maybe because she is more often called to see you doing every day,
but you know, if it turns out Dad was the one who reminds Mama to call you?
Maybe once when you're little, Mama who more often take you told me or told me, but you know that after my father worked and with tired faces at Mama's father always ask about are you and what did you do all day?
By the time you are still a little girl ...... father usually teaches his little daughter to ride a bike. And after the father pick up could, Your father will release the wheel aids in the bike ...
Then Mama said: "Not yet Dad, do not be removed once the wheels help her",
Mama's afraid of falling and hurt the sweet daughter ....
But realize you?
That the Father with confidence will let you, look at you, and take care pedaled carefully because she knows her little girl SURE CAN.
When you cry whine request new dolls or toys, Mama look at you with pity. But I will say emphatically: "Can we buy it later, but not now"
Did you know, Dad did it because I do not want you to become a spoiled child with all the demands which are always to be met?
When you're a cold, father who was too afraid to yell sometimes a little by saying:
"Already told you! You do not drink cold water!".
Unlike Mama who observe and advise you gently. Know that time my father really worried about doing.
When you've got teenagers ....
You start demanding on my father for permission to go out at night, and father was firm and said: "Not allowed!".
Did you know that father did that to take care of you?
As for Dad, you are something very - very unusual precious ..
After that you're mad at Dad, and entered the room, slamming the door ...
And who comes knocking doors and persuade you to avoid anger is Mama ....
Did you know that when father closed his eyes and holding within his inner turmoil,
That the father was eager to follow your wishes, but once again he MUST take care of you?
When when a guy started to call you often, or even come to the house to see you, He will put the world's coolest face .... : ')
Dad occasionally eavesdropping or peeping when you are chatting together in the living room ..
You realize, if father felt jealous heart?
When you begin to be more credible, and Dad relax a little out of the house rules for you, you will be forced to violate at night.
So that made father was sitting in the living room, and waiting to go home with a heart that is very worrying ...
And after feeling worried about it go on - late ...
When he saw his little girl's came home late at night, fathers hearts will harden and you scold him .. .
You realize, that this was because it was feared that the father will soon come?
"That little girl will soon be going to leave him"
After graduating from high school, Dad will be a little force you to become a doctor or engineer.
Know that the entire force that made my father was alone - the eyes just thinking about your future later ...
But still father still smiling and supporting you when your choice is not in accordance with the wishes of father
When you become an adult girl ....
And you have to go to college another town ...
I have to let you at the airport.
Did you know that the agency Father feels stiff to hold you?
He just smiled as he gave this advice - that, and tell you to be careful. .
And I want to cry like Mama and hug you tight.
Yang's father did just remove a little tear in the corner of his eyes, and patted the shoulder saying "Take care of yourself well yes dear".
Dad did it all for you STRONGER ... strong to go and become adults.
When you need money to finance half of the money and life, the first person is my father frowned.
Dad must have tried hard to find a way so that their children can feel the same with his friends to another.
When the request is no longer simply asking a new doll, and I know he can not give what you want ...
The words that came out of Dad's mouth was: "No. .... No way!"
In fact in mind of father, he was eager to say "Yes dear, I'll buy you a father."
Did you know that at that moment father feels failed to make her son smile?
It's time you graduated as a scholar.
Father was the first to stand up and applaud you.
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3 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
27 Jan 11
I think that the reason that the majority of people think about their mother more than their father is because of the fact that their mothers are typically more visible in their lives than their fathers ever were. That said, I also think that the father plays an equally important role in a child's life, it is just a different role than that of a mother. My father was my biggest fan and supporter and I miss him every day. I never questioned his feelings about me. I feel like our household while I was growing up was quite equal. However, I also see that this isn't the case for a lot of families.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
19 Jan 11
Hi,
Unconsciously my tears dripping after reading.
I feel sad, yes, I know, and I realized with all that. You are absolutely right, I'm grateful to my father, I know what he did for this is the best for me.
Thank you very much, I love my father,
Because of the struggle of a father, I could be like this and stands with upright faces hard life.
Greeting
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 11
Actually, the child was in love with her because in the eyes of a child, the mother had been as a savior of his life ...., struggled during childbirth and care for her ....
But that does not mean the child to forget her father, considering the greater burden of mothers in childbirth and in pain ....
So we do have to prioritize the world's first mother, new father ....
Heaven There Is Mother Foot soles
The old adage is still implied hearts ....
Mother's gentle nature ..., soothing feeling, makes everything feel lighter just to hear the speech and his counsel, relieve stress if you have a disaster and a mistake ....
So the father is important, but in this world there are not more important than the mother ....
So priority than the other mothers in this world, because our mother initially had been sacrificed to deliver us ...
Our mother is also where we vent and sharing ....
If we fight the same father, our mother who would suppress it ....
Anyway, dad is second only to mother's affairs ....




