Can we pause for a while when we get tired in a relationship?

Philippines
January 20, 2011 10:52am CST
How does one keep the love alive? this has been one question that I always ask myself, I know that it takes hard work for a relationship to work but what if you get tired, can you just tell your partner that i am tired can we have a break? and then just resume when got rested? I think that this might work if your partner and you understand what is happening in the situation its not that you don't love your partner anymore but you just needed a break from building the relationship because once you get tired and you want a complete rest from the relationship then that's a hard one and I think one gets tired too if you only work for the relationship and your partner is not helping you.so I ask you my fellow mylotters, can you pause for a while when we get tired?
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25 Jan 11
i once made a pause in my past relationship and never had the chance to resume it. maybe i was just thinking of myself at that time and never took her side.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
hello celeste, In every relationship there is always ups and downs. It can not be avoided,and yes,why not give some space. Sometimes it helps to make a relationship stronger and not to break or end it up. Giving enough space to breath and think for a while. It will make each other missed and feel the importance if they lost each other. have a great weekend