If the person who you love

Way back a couple of years ago. I fell in love with my best friend. Though we've gone our separate ways and he lives in a distant place. But still my feelings for him never really change. Although that time I already have a boyfriend but still if I had a chance to choose I would still choose him. Our friends always told me to forget him and move on. And I did although it really hurts me knowing that he already had a girlfriend. But I can't do anything about it. He just consider me as a "friend" I've wasted a lot of time and tears for him. And I guess its time for me to really move on.

Learn to respect others to accept whatever decision despite the fact that it is very painful feelings. But if we too impose themselves, it is not only good but we too must be ready to accept another reality that must be especially painful.

Loving it is the right of every human being and it is not wrong. Try to be the best so he will choose you. If you can not, then leave him. It's okay to love, but make it all the most sweet memories of your life. love can not be owned,

And the question is: Will you still love him even if you do not ever know if he still loves you? Feeling restless, anxious, miserable mixed into one Every day you can only guess and guess Are you ready for such circumstances?

i would propose to end the story and start a new begining. it is indeed foolish to waste time if you know or profoundly feel no hope and no end for the happenings. try to find out the right person who love us deeply,and most importantly,try to bulid up our own business both mentally and economically,so that we are not going to be controled by anyone and would think independently.

Well, I agree it's hard to say, but in my general opinion I would say no. If he is with another girl and does not care about you, there's no point in ruin your own life for something it may never happen. If he cares about you but does not leave the other girl, well he is cheating, so if he is doing it now, it could do it in future. If he does not know you like/love him, just try to see if he is interested. Things happens, like people who stop a relationship because they understand they like someone else (well, not the best thing if you are the girl who is being left, but better than stay together without love). I don't know your situation, anyway "waiting for him" is not a think I would do. Live your life, and if this is going to happen, it will ;)

i wouldn't wait for him right now. he has a girlfriend. i would date other guys; and if he is available, then i would see if he likes you. don't wait around. life is too short. there will be that special man just for you who really loves you and you him. best to you.

i do know it`s very hard..but you must control your heart... it`s easier forget him if you never know him too much...

I think you are just punishing yourself.. I had that experience and its sickening.

We caan't help to pine for the one we love. Even if they don't belong to us, deep in our hearts we still hold that hope that one day they will be. We may think we are being silly to wait for them. sometimes it is worth the wait. Other times we find another distraction and forget what we were waiting for.

I was in this situation before, after 26 years my path led me to the person I loved before. We met in another country when I was on holiday, he found me in a social networking site and that time, for what reason we do not know, like a strike of a deadly virus he has fallen for me that i could never imagine, it was such a beautiful love story but he is no longer free. We decided to separate and now I am happy in a relationship with someone who loves me so much and I'm loving him back.

I believe love is still there, although a little but love remains. Hope did not go away, but I do not want to do things in vain. Waiting for non-plan or even obviously not going to happen. At that instant, I definitely will try to give up. To forget about it, though it is difficult but I will fight. I do not want to continue to be haunted by the shadow of him, I want to let go of that suffering.

Well, this a typical question! But I don't know! If at all he has a girlfriend, then surely I would interfere in his life or between them, but I thin I'll move away from him and stay alone by myself thinking about him! I mean, for me, feelings are just born once on one person. It can't be changing and I don't think anyone else can replace my guy,(well, not exactly), So i prefer to stay away from the person but will make sure I'm updated about him and his life through someone! That will be best for him and me!