If you'll die next month, how are you going to spend your last 30 days in earth?

January 21, 2011 8:15pm CST
The aunt of my friend is in terminal stage of cancer. The doctor predict that she may only leave in less than a month. It was difficult for the family to accept it. We were planning to bring her in the places where she loved most. Do you have any suggestion on how are we going to spend her last days of existence in this world? Thank you and God bless!
9 responses
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
In the first ten days of the thirty days, I will travel to the places I really wanted to. Like the Disneyland, Greece, etc. On the second 10 days, I will buy and do all my leisures. I will play video games, stay in a spa, etc. That's all I want to do in the first 20 days. I want my long life wants to be fulfilled. On the last 10 days of my life, I will have more time with my family. This will be the moment when the greatest sorrows will happen in my life. Hugging my parents, family, and all. And for the last day, I want to sleep as a normal day. I'll sleep just like nothing will happened. And before i close my eyes, i will say; "Farewell World"
22 Jan 11
I like the last part. :)
22 Jan 11
If I had that circumstance, then I would definetly like to go to the place where I can wash away my sins i've done in my life. In India, the world most famous river called "ganga river" where 100 of million people visits there from all around the worl. because the ganga river has power to wash away your sins by taking a single dive that river. This is the myth of Indian religion. It's a holy place. where the world most largest gathering takes place in a year.
22 Jan 11
I think it's cool to be there :)
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
Greetings! I feel sad after I've read your post. Yes. You should bring her to the places that she would love to visit together with her family and make happy and memorable moments. Spend quality time with her, make her happy, give her whatever she wants, and do all her request so that she wouldn't forget her last few days but the most important is that you must always be there by her side until that 30 days last. I really feel sad about that. I feel like I want to cry. :'(
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
I am sorry to hear that.I wish she would have the very gracious way of saying goodbye to all of you. Maybe all of you can plan a beach outing, the beach feels like heaven and it will somehow give her a feeling of whats awaiting for her at the end of the tunnel, which is heaven , no more tears and pain. God bless and i am praying for strength and courage for all your family as you all go through these trying time.
@yhanie (188)
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
if i would have that destiny, i'll do everything i want to and make sure all of my 30 days left will be memorable for my loved ones and that they would remember me as a happy person,,
• United States
23 Jan 11
If I'll die next month, I will relive the best days of my life with my family and friends.
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
hi there. well that's probably a nice idea to take her to some of the most memorable places. during her remaining days here on earth, make her feel special and valuable. and when she finally rests, do not get sad and worry because she'll be in the Lord's arms already, and free from her sick body. in her last days, never let her feel alone, and always speak words of encouragement. God bless your friend's aunt and their family and you too. see you around!
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
It soo sad.. I would suggest that you give her all the love and care she needs, bring her often to church, and always pray for her and dont show her that you pity her situation. Its a good idea to bring her to the places she loved it will ease the sadness..
@lazette (216)
• Philippines
22 Jan 11
Ask her what she wants to do, whether it's to go abroad or to some amusement park she wants. Try to fulfill all the things she wants as much as possible, no matter how bad it may be, and ultimately, have all of you be with her at all times. That should be enough. As long as you guys are with her until her final breath, then that should make her feel fulfilled.