Give Gratitude!

@jodylee (946)
United States
January 26, 2011 3:00pm CST
I have kept a journal for many years and have recently started a journal for recording what I am grateful for in my life. I have been doing this for a few months now and am really finding some benefits of it. Journaling used to mean writing down all the things I was having problems with and now, not so much. I am finding that showing gratitude is giving me a more positive life. I am noticing great things happening around me and am experiencing more positive than negative. Can you do it? Can you give gratitude? Lets all try it. Write what you are grateful for. Make a habit of it and see if it changes your perspective. I would love to hear what others are grateful for. What do you appreciate?
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• Pakistan
27 Jan 11
I am not very regular with my journal! I have entries marking important events. Sadly all of them include me venting out my frustration and ingratitude and at this moment i feel so ashamed!! I never realized it but they even have a pattern. Like the entries are mostly in one particular month of a year! Do you think perhaps the month is jinxed??!! I guess that is why i have so much anger inside me!!Up until now i would surf the net solely to stop my self from lashing out at others!! Now however, my perspective has under gone a major transformation!! I have stopped taking every thing for granted and finding positive lesson in everything!! Considering i have much to be thankful about! Have amazing parents, great friends, have been given wonderful education, hell i am a doctor, have a chance of helping others which i think is a real blessing and i have been granted this amazing gift, this need to help my country!! How could i have been so blind for this long is beyond my comprehension!!
@jodylee (946)
• United States
27 Jan 11
The patterns we find in our lives are always interesting. May I ask which month tends to be in negativity? Perhaps there is an underlying issue at work during that time. It could be seasonal, not just weather but the food you eat during that time. Until we learn about ourselves and all the emotions we have we have no way to defend ourselves from feeling down on the negatives. I am so thankful you have been able to move forward in your life and wish you much success with your new life thoughts. By the way, what kind of doctor are you? Just curious???
@jodylee (946)
• United States
27 Jan 11
That sounds very exciting. Are you a new doctor? It is hard to tell from posts things like age, profession and location. I have always wondered what it would be like to be a doctor and thought I would like being a pediatrician the best, but I did not go to school for that. Now I am at a crossroads and am thinking of going back to school for my masters degree. We will see in the future but in the meantime, I will just stay positive :)
• Pakistan
27 Jan 11
September and October and i am about to start my specialty training!! Yes i hope i can grow out of my pessimistic approach!!
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
I would love to try this. I think this is a really good idea. Before, I didn't understand how a gratitude journal will help me in my life. But now I do understand, it's for helping us to focus on the positive things more than on the negative things and also to give gratitude to God.
@jodylee (946)
• United States
14 Sep 11
I find it gives me a greater sense of the good around. I find myself trying to capture the good each day so I can have more to write about in my journal!
• United States
26 Jan 11
I really appreciate you encouraging other people to do this. I've noticed this with myself a while ago. Whenever I wrote in my journal it was to vent about something negative that was happening to me, or about my relationship problems. I have a journal file on my computer (because I sometimes just type) that's over 100 pages single spaced... all about negative things in my life. I stopped writing so much because it got to the point that it was depressing and I associated it with negative feelings. I told myself that I would start writing more positive things but I just avoided writing altogether. I never really thought of creating a journal just for the positive things in life. I think I'm going to try that myself because I do believe in the power of positive thought. I think your little project could make many people's lives better if they try it out. As for me, I'm thankful for my health. I'm thankful for my mother being there for me so that I can have someone to fall back on. I'm thankful for all the struggling that she did to make ends meet on her own so that I could have a good life. I'm even thankful for her denying me things like toys when I was little, because it has made me less materialistic. I'm thankful for the college education that I was fortunate enough to experience. I'm thankful for my friends, who are there to cheer me up or talk to me no matter what. I could go on, but I won't because this post could get really long since I type fast lol.
@jodylee (946)
• United States
26 Jan 11
I am glad I am not the only one who has been able to see the negative more clearly and for what it is. I hope I have inspired you to start a gratitude journal. The power of positive thinking is huge and it is amazing to watch life turn around when the focus is shifted. You are thankful for so many wonderful things and I appreciate you sharing them with me. I especially like that you are able to see the positive from your mothers challenges and denial of material goods. That is such an amazing statement! Feel free to share what you are grateful with any time!
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• Philippines
27 Jan 11
Feeling that gratitude takes away all the negativity in a person. That's one of the tricks I use whenever I'm overly stressed or just angry at the situation. We can't help but get angry at many situations we encounter in our lives and we need a counter state for it, in this case, the feeling of gratitude.
@jodylee (946)
• United States
27 Jan 11
Well said! It is always difficult to combat negative and it would seem obvious to counter it with the opposite! I am so grateful to have learned this trick and am so excited to continue using it.
@EdnaReyes (2622)
• Philippines
27 Jan 11
First let me extend my gratitude to you for this wonderful insights. This is a warm encouragement one should not miss. I think I am grateful for my being, for my life, for my family, for every bad and good times I have while living my life. I am most grateful to my God, for every blessings all through out my life!
@jodylee (946)
• United States
27 Jan 11
I am glad you found this to be a good discussion. Being grateful and showing appreciation for all the good things we have puts our focus on just that, the positives. When we dwell in our mistakes or other negativity all it seems to do, for me at least, is bring me more bad. It is amazing how when we look at our lives we can pick out certain pieces to be thankful for. I know for me, I am able to find the good in the bad after carefully looking at the situation. Thank you for sharing!
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
7 Oct 11
Gratitude for food on the table, grateful for that you have a house that keeps you from the whims of weather, for the comfort of hand, without thinking about the villa or penthouse pool that you'd like them or bolide that to make passing by to look back after you with envy. Gratitude to the people you love. Face it, simply, that there is at least a few people in the world who love and who truly care about you. Recognized yours that keep you the freedom to go where you want, express your views unhindered, to read any book you want. If you have a boyfriend, lover or friend, think with gratitude the joy that you bring it alive. Be grateful for memories of life pleasant and do not try to look on the bad that you were just destined to learn to be grateful. Be grateful for whatever makes you even just smiling during the day, be grateful when you come in contact with decent people, intelligent, warm and well intentioned. These are just some things we could be grateful for life. Are only suggestions. But certainly there are many others. And it would be better to find them, because gratitude is a way to live and enjoy the present.