Women and Money

January 28, 2011 2:48am CST
I am finding it difficult keeping a relationship all because all the girls I have been in a relationship with always have this philosophy of "NO ROMANCE WITHOUT FINANCE". Please is this always true? If NO, then, how do I make them stay longer with me and enjoy a long relationship?
5 responses
@naija4real (1291)
17 Feb 11
I do not agree to the assertion that all women desire money as a basis for a relationship with a man or a guy. There are some woman who look to other criteria, such as your character, honesty,hard work, etc If you could just top this list with some little job that is fetching you some money. I think that would be okay. the women will always flock around you. But if you are the type that is too proud and you are arrogant. then the ladies will say "to hell with your money!"
• India
7 Feb 11
Hey Augustine Trust me ... most of the women who will post a reply will say ... " Ohh ... you have been with the wrong women for most of the time." "OMG ! I understand ... there are a few women like that!" "Wrong ... not all women are after money ... now look at me ... " blah blah blah You will unsuccessfully find a woman who is bold enough to say that , yes , i love money because .... blah blah. Instead all will show unlimited rays of hope from God knows which source , saying you will find your soulmate, the perfect match , made-for-you , blah blah ... If you don't believe me ... experiment it ! Buy a beautiful dress or take the girl to a candle light dinner in a Limousine near the beach ... she's all yours. On the other side...take the girl to McDonalds by a crowded public bus and ask her if she would like to share the bill . Next thing she would do is...delete your number from her phonebook ! Brutal Facts Of Life - Woman !
@didi13 (2926)
• Romania
28 Jan 11
Unfortunately in today's money comes first and then love. It is time that the grandparents, when she stayed home and men at work.Now they are equal, and shortcomings when it comes to the relationship the first time you are asked what do you do? Bad move.
• India
28 Jan 11
Dear augustineonwujei, I think relations are not the things which can be bounded by money. When ever you will have a person that is not money minded you will be very happy to meet him. and i think when you meet somebody you should not let him know that you are rich enough. After you have a healthy relation you can make him understand your feelings about that. Thanks
@Chriz24 (66)
• South Africa
28 Jan 11
These girls are obviously with you for all the wrong reasons. Its true when finances are low it limits the activities you can do but there are some low cost things you can do together. Girls love a picknic next to a lake or going to the zoo. Its about keeping things interesting and not about how much you spend. Good luck and im sure the right girl for you is somewhere out there