What to do when someone blackmail emotionally?

China
January 28, 2011 7:52pm CST
Yes emotionally. It's very bad. My partner blackmail me emotionally. That time i couldn't understand what to do? My partner knows what my weakness and blackmail me. My partner loves me very much but feel very when do blackmail emotionally. what to do now?
5 responses
dreamnishu
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
29 Jan 11
yes blackmailing is very bad for everyone.im so emotional so my friends and my parents can blackmail me very easyli.sometime i do it with them but i feel very sad when people blackmail me.its very bad. who likes to do blackmail?
bird123
@bird123 (10632)
• United States
29 Jan 11
You should ask your partner. Why do you blackmail me emotionally??? Get the communication out in the open. Ask them. Would a person who really loves you blackmail???? I think not!! Don't sweep this under the carpet. If you allow this, you tell them this is acceptable. It should not be!!
jalucia
@jalucia (1431)
• United States
29 Jan 11
I don't know how he blackmailed you. But, once you get past this, don't let it happen again. It may be wise to walk away from him, once you feel it is safe to do so.
frontvisions101
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
29 Jan 11
If he loves you so much then why would he blackmail you? Just break up with him to get it over with.
memoryporte
@memoryporte (41)
• United States
29 Jan 11
Explain to them that they can't do that if they love you. And try to make a compromise. Sorry if you're hurt. :/