access the facebook account of other people...

@asliah (11137)
Philippines
January 29, 2011 9:06am CST
when my ex-lover separated to me, i always access his facebook account, just to check if he open it or not,or if there are some unread or read messages, i can access his facebook because i was there when he signed up, do you think its bad to access the facebook account of my ex-lover? will you access the facebook account of your lover or even ex-lover for what reason/s?
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19 responses
@annie_ako (102)
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
For me, its not right to access the fb of your ex bf since it's one of their private thing..but then i know that we can't do that 'coz of curiosity knowing what are new to him..and because of one reason and that is because you still love him :)
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
taking time after breaking up is hard, that is really true... you try to give yourself a chance, if you are really tempted to access his facebook, Limit, your access, and do THIS AS A THERAPY, SOMEwhat, It Helps Moving - On... may God Bless Us All, Always... my best regards too, and More Power...
• United States
30 Jan 11
I can see how the intense of curiosity will take over a persons thoughts. But for me no, I would not do so as I feel once we break up I would not to know all details of their lives, which by the way here in the US it would be illegal if caught and complained there are penalties if someone charges you with invading of internet communication. I do hope some in the US if doing so understand the implications this can cause.
• Philippines
31 Jan 11
he deserves privacy, move-on... our best regards to all... both, of you I guess, deserves, a time, maybe breaking-up, the cause of it, and the mutual benefit of it is "Having Privacy..." Happy MyLooting all friends, and Friends to be.... God Bless, and Care a Lot....
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
20 Feb 11
Hi. asliah. After we have broken up, I would be surprised that I am still able to gain access to his Facebook account. I would think that he would have closed that account or changed his password or what not. How are you able to still get access to his information. He must not mind keeping the same passwords. I think that it is not so good to access your past lover facebook account.
@gaiza12 (4884)
• Philippines
16 Feb 11
I think it's not good to check on an ex-lovers facebook account. It's already too personal and I think the guy may think that you still want to have him back or maybe think of something bad to you when he finds out you are opening his personal account. I have access to my lovers facebook and he does in mine too. I think that is okay since we are lovers and that we don't hide anything from each other.
@aeiou78 (3445)
• Malaysia
2 Feb 11
By right, we are not supposed to access to other people's facebook account. In human's nature, we shall access the facebook account of someone whom is closed to us. For instance, I do access to my children's facebook account once a while so that, I know what they are doing. ha! ha! ha! I am concerning my children's safety in using facebook or other social network. If I restrict their activities too much, I just worry they will repel and purposely act against me to show their unhappiness. javascript:__doPostBack('ctl00$cphMainContent$lbStart','')
@syoti20 (5293)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
For me I don't mind as long as I can access his account. hahahaha
@kimian55 (132)
• Alamogordo, New York
30 Jan 11
Maybe I would. but just out of curiousity maybe and yeah I think its bad to access someone else's account ex or no ex. How would you feel if your ex lover keeps on peaking to your private account. Looking at your private messages..How would you feel? Besides if you keep on doing that.. it will be harder for you to move on. So what the hell but if you to screw with your ex go ahead an change the password.. and announce to the world his gay and he can't contain the feeling...=D
@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
2 Feb 11
well, why do you still access it? if he is already your ex-lover..if u are still accessing it,in a way you are still into him which i do not find healthy..how can you move on?
• South Africa
31 Jan 11
To be honest, that's a little freaky to me. As far as I know, no one has access to my account beside me, and i've only had access to other people's accounts if they used facebook on my pc. However, as far as looking at other people's pages... if i can, i do. I suppose facebook can bring out the stalker in anyone.
@Cutie18f (9551)
• Philippines
30 Jan 11
If I am still madly in love with him, then I think I would do what you did. But I am sure the other person will not like it. Give him some space. Respect his privacy, and move on.
@humairaku (2038)
• Indonesia
30 Jan 11
I think it's not good doing such a thing. I'm married, but I never log in to my hubby's private account like e-mails or facebook. cos for me everyone needs their own privacy and space to express themselves, even for our lovers or partner. you can pretend to be your lover, do you like if there's someone else logs in to your private account and always monitor everything you do on it? I'm sure you won't like it..be wise, sista..^___^
• India
30 Jan 11
Accessing someone else' private accounts or contents is illegal and punishable by law. You should not think about doing such activities.
• Pakistan
30 Jan 11
hahahahah. i dont have any girl friend nor x-girlfriend. so i will not access any acount. and i will just say no love no tention. hahahaahhaah
• United States
30 Jan 11
That's pretty dodgy. I think it's best just to avoid ex-lovers and their private stuff. Unless they are dangerous. Maybe you've not quite got over your ex yet, and it's a way of keeping contact?
• India
29 Jan 11
I dont think its good to check partners facebook account,you should not take doubts on him,Usually guys dont like when their gf becomes possesive,you just have to give him space,If he is a bad guy and want to ditch you,he will do anyway,Being possesive won't help and now you cannot access Facebook account from other computer,he will probably caught you :D
@Lance26 (956)
• Philippines
29 Jan 11
Well, for my current gf I will if she allows me to. But when we already broke up I think it's not right to access my gf's account. No more reason to do that and I don't like to access mine neither. When it's finish between the two of us, it is already finish.
@stevieboi19 (1419)
29 Jan 11
No it's certainly not a good thing whilst in a relationship with him or even if he is your ex.Firstly in a relationship you need to be trusting and signing in to your lovers facebook account unless without his go ahead would not be trusting of your partner. Secondly in signing into an ex lovers account well why would you want to view your ex's account anyway? If it's because you still want him then that would would be going about it the wrong way and probably scupper any chance a relationship.
• Ecuador
29 Jan 11
You shouldn't do that. I know doing that kind of thing is ILLEGAL, so you can go to jail. I think that you're jealous or something like that, but you should start thinking before doing. It's my sincerely suggestion.
@jasper40t (468)
29 Jan 11
well my partner hasnt got one!, but if she had one then i wud read it, yea!!.He will only do the same thing we r all nosey people at heart.Put it this way in this day and age i dont believe any1 that they would not check on their partners fbook page. The only way people wont is if they dont even know each others true password.If your allowed to u will and if sum1 didnt want their profile checked out im quite sure they would make it private.....