How can we love someone not because of coercion?

Indonesia
January 29, 2011 10:28pm CST
How do we love someone who really love it do not exist in us, but love because of a friend. Love because we have already accepted her in our hearts. while we can not forget my first love is always embedded in our hearts. could we love her while there was no real love in our hearts for her? should love is always there in a lie?? and should he really know that we do not love her?
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4 responses
• Indonesia
3 Feb 11
Loving one's certainly a reason. did not come without. someone who we love it, come out from the deepest heart of hearts, that loved one who has been assessed from various perspectives, ranging from personality came to the things relating to the actual condition of a person. feeling of love arises, if there are common feelings, views and hobbies, etc.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 11
Love will not be imposed. but love can grow if we accept what is our partner. just enjoy this life because any god given to us we must accept as a gift because if we think of as a burden then life would be hard and difficult ... respect and care about your partner ... any how she was the one closest to you that you need to protect from all dangers that might be claimed his life.
• Indonesia
30 Jan 11
true love is loving someone without feelings of doubt so if loving someone without the actual feeling is not love, like going out with someone but we always hurt or like always smiling but deep down inside felt sad, it actually open the love reply. Sediri Be yourself and love what they are. time will always be there for every person in need.
• China
30 Jan 11
If you love someone not because of coercion,I'm sure you have never loved her in your heart.That kind of love doesn't last long.I mean the coercion comes from your duty!