Dreaming of your ex-significant other, being alone brings weird dreams

United States
January 31, 2011 9:33am CST
Its been about 6 months since I last dated anyone so I am guessing my mind is playing tricks on me but last night I had a dream of a woman I used to date. What bothers me is that I was going to give this woman a second chance in my dream. In reality she was very possessive and jealous, she used to get jealous over my kids and used to go through my caller ID on my house phone and cell phone. She used to answer my phone all the time to make sure everyone knew we were dating. We had only been seeing each other a few weeks and she informed me that she wanted an engagement ring for Christmas, mind you she had already been married 3 times. So what bothers me is that out of all the people I could of dreamed about it was her. I am sure most of it is that I have been alone and am starting to feel those pains of being alone but subconsciously couldn't I have picked someone better! Maybe at the subconscious level I am always destined to pick the worst choice...lol
3 responses
@pogi253 (1595)
• Philippines
7 Feb 11
Basically it's just a reminder that she was, is, and always will be a fraction of whom you are and who you're going to be.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
31 Jan 11
somtimes it;'sbetter to be alone than in a bad company.now about your dream...you can't command who to dream...as long as you choose not to date that possesive woman anymore I don't get it why you say you are destined to make the worst choice. a bad choice would have bee to continue the relationship with her
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 11
It is better to be alone than be with someone who is overly possessive. She is only making a hellish life for her partner.