Your EX cannot move on from your PAST
By freymind
@freymind (1351)
Philippines
January 31, 2011 5:50pm CST
The ending was abrupt and it hurt both of you and but you knew it would be for the better. Days, months, and years had passed and you already had a relationship but your ex came back in your life out of no where. He seems determined to win you back and swears that this second chance to rekindle your love will be worth the risk.
But you're already in an almost perfect relationship and your ex is ruining it for you. Your present partner is having doubts about you and your feelings for him as well. If you were in this situation what would you do and would you escalate it to the police as harassment since he's also going to your workplace and even threatening your male co-workers that he sees always with you?
Not my story guys, just a situation a friend of mine is dealing with right now. I already gave her advice but I would love to hear from you guys. It would help a lot. Thanks in advance.
4 responses
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
3 Feb 11
With the harrassment and feeling like I was being stalked, I think that I would take the situation to the police. However, in most other situations I think I would just try to avoid my ex. I would never want to do anything that would hurt the relationship that I was in at that time if it was a near perfect relationship. I would also hope that my ex would be able to realize that they needed to just forget and move on with their life.
@Sanitary (3968)
• Singapore
2 Feb 11
This is just like a discussion i started about a couple of months ago. My ex left me without a word and that's how i ended up with my current bf. One day, my ex returns, wanted to be back with me, and that left me confused because i'm still feeling for him, yet i don't want to break my current's heart. I have to make a difficult decision, and i'm glad i make the right one. I told my ex to leave and move on because i'm found someone better.
If your friend is facing such a rude ex bf, it's best to call the police and let the police handle it. It's going to be worst if she has a bf now by asking the bf to interfere.
@selmatxuga (24)
• Portugal
1 Feb 11
first i have to realize who u really love, u cannot have doubts bout it, not at ALL..
if u love your curent boyfriend you have to show him that u love Him and no one else...
if u lve your ex, well in that case why not giving him a second chance, right.. :)
@treedezy (61)
• United States
31 Jan 11
I think a person, any person, guy or gal should give their lover a certain amount of mistakes that are allowed. Your lover don't know how many chances that they have just you. If they go over then its over with.
