What you feel and you do if this happens?

Indonesia
January 31, 2011 9:10pm CST
You have a girlriend, then you have to target a few more years would marry her, before the time that you are targeting it, your girlfriend has married someone else. What do you feel? And what do you do next?
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5 responses
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
The natural feelings would set in. And that would be being depressed and disappointments comes in. But you should always remember that if you are not really meant for each other, there would be more other ways to come or hindrances that would halt your relationship with that person. Even how far... how long you will wait, if you are really meant for each other, God would always reserve both of you for each other. If that happens, the right one for you will always arrive in your life at the right time. While waiting for that moment, reserve yourself and prepare yourself for that day that both of you will spend your lifetimes together. ( wink ) :)
• Indonesia
5 Feb 11
There are many events that are painful and certainly made me do not understand, but your statement is a revelation.
@maean_19 (4655)
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
That would be hurting of course. But you have to consider the reason why she has to marry someone else? Your intention may be good, but the problem is, did you convey your intention to her? She probably have thought that you have no intention to marry her. Girls always thought of security and you should have to affirm that. If they sense that you have no intention to marry them, then they will find someone whom they think they can be secured.
• Philippines
1 Feb 11
I agree... Why would we wait for someone who cannot even prove or has any true intentions to marry us? If that person is very interested and very true with his feelings, he should tell that to someone he loves. Always remember, that there are a lot fishermen is the sea. Might that fisherman also wanted the big fish that you got. So always take good care and protect it. :)
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
17 Feb 11
Well disappointed, I think I want buried, hehehe ... But, it was just a target, we are just trying, sometimes reached and sometimes missed, that clearly alive still running, although probably left some wounds ... The point is just slow. "I've been stabbed in love, and then struck down a storm, but I'm still standing, oh yeah ....."
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
4 Feb 11
Sad really, why could he do that? but although sadly not to hurt yourself, be strong and tough, he's not the best! he just may not know our hearts are broken, we should show him, that the world is still so beautiful and interesting, though without him again.
• Indonesia
7 Feb 11
Disappointed for sure, but should find the cause why he married first, so there is not revenge.