Do you think we should be picky friends or not?

@gengeni (3308)
Indonesia
February 2, 2011 6:22am CST
Indeed, he says we should not picky friends. But we also must not associate with just anyone, so we have to be picky person to be our friend. we should not be friends with just anyone, but friends are not we supposed to choose. So confused! What do you think?
5 responses
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
16 Feb 11
I think I need to picky friends, it's not fair if we're doing that. The problem should not be hanging out at random, perhaps to be more careful, that is, we ourselves who must know the limits our friendship, if for example we have a friend who is not good, still just friends, but do not let us come fall and not so good follow-up.
@maezee (41997)
• United States
5 Feb 11
I think we totally have the right to be picky! I mean it doesn't mean we should be RUDE to everyone at our own discretion but I think we deserve to be picky with who we decide to allow into our lives. Of course, there's a thin line between "picky" and "perfectionist". You don't want to be TOO picky or you'll end up with no one. But you don't want to be NOT-picky-enough, otherwise you'll wind up with a bunch of bad friends that don't actually care about you. I think it's about finding a balance!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
4 Feb 11
I dfinitely think so. I mean, we choose products with such care, we try to see how a dress or jeans will fit us and i gues that is how we should be when choosing friends. Thex are an extenti0n of what we are, they are what people would associate us with. I have seen how great an influence a friend is. M0re like a pers0n like a family that can either make us better or destroy us.
@khalida (1126)
• India
2 Feb 11
well first of all you can start with observing people to get a glimpse of their character. This will give you an insight of what type of people would be compatible with you. talk more to them and probably get close? who says you shouldn't be friends with everyone? you can be friendly with everyone this will also help you to develop your relationship with people and probably make more friends.
@ph1los (20)
• Lithuania
4 Feb 11
Of course yyou should be picky, becouse friends that are not chosen well can betray you and that wouldnt make him or her a friend.There is no harm in deep examination and espiacily do not be afraid to conduct research about everything that can affect your life.Yes maybe im the picky type,but fools pay twice.In your case you could pay a whole lot more. Another section that when choosing a friend you should know if you are not bored with him and if you wont leave him or her so choose wisely!DO not pick a friend that is not your character and you know that there is a chance to argue all the time.And most definetaly do not choose a friend that demands too much from you or either wants to make friends only for the good of himself while trying to use you.Believe me i have been there and i have done that. Cheers!