Have you ever experienced this strange thing?

I often do not expect anything, but it suddenly came. Usually it's not something I want, even things that I sort of hate.

Just keep your head cool. It's hard to do, I know this, but once you can manage to get yourself dissociated from the whole thing, you'll it differently and be able to formulate yourself rational decisions.

sometimes,it is better not to think of what others will think...if people do not care, then the best thing to do is to care for yourself first and just do what is right for you and for those who truly care...

If you try to unconditionally, then you can be happy even if not seen as people who started it all. Even though such as there are people who behave as if it was he who took the initiative, but if you try it for the good of the people, for things that you really care about, something that is really precious to you, then no matter who gets praise , which is important in the end you struggle to fruition, even if you remain "invisible. " Focus on what is most important.

Ah thank you for posting this discussion. Well i have experienced this while helping other. I go on helping other, but they never even thank me neither do they notice. They feel its my duty to help them. They never often anything in return to me. They are my family members. :(