How to identify if somesone really loves you or just trying to use you ??

Yaar,it's very simple.When someone tells you to do something,it clearly means s\he is trying to use you and when you find someone cares about you,it means s\he loves you.

It's DEFINITELY hard to figure out if someone REALLY cares about you or not. If you are anything like me, you hear the words...and even if the OPPOSITE actions may be staring you in the face, you don't see them...until your heart has been ripped out. I know from where i speak, because I have recently been going through that type of situation in an online relationship, where I was hearing all the right words..and behind the scenes, this person didn't mean a word of them.

Personally, it can be hard at first, and something you sometimes have to use your better judgement with. Many times it is Best to throw caution to the wind with New people as it is better to be cautious at first and get to know them better, than to Trust them right away and have you get your feelings hurt, and feel used as well.

its very tough to find the true one around us.It will take some time to decide about some one.First we want to trust them.Trust is the import thing in building the best relationship.