Do you hurt someone when you get mad?
By careguarden
@careguarden (5670)
Philippines
February 7, 2011 5:47pm CST
Sometimes, we cannot help ourselves getting mad to someone else. And that time, we hurt the feelings of others..did you hurt someone's feelings?
7 responses
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
Hello letski..That's good idea that you didn't want to hurt others feelings because you don't want also that others hurt your feelings. Of course, we can always hurt people through words but not physically. But you know what? It is better to hurt people physically not emotionally because people believes that hurting physically can heal if the wounds healed but when hurting emotionally cannot heal..
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Gosbless
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
10 Feb 11
Hello chaze..Good to hear that because you can control your temper and you can think better not to hurt anyone. I admire you that. wow, how I wish I am just like you that if I mad, I can control myself not to burst out my temper. Not all people can do that..
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Gosbless
@CarlHalling (3617)
• United Kingdom
8 Feb 11
I have done as we all have done lets' face it, but needless to say, it's best avoided. I certainly try. I usually feel awful if I've hurt someone through what I've said when mad. It's a recipe for total misery. Self-control should be aimed for, even when we get angry. Alas, it doesn't always happen; but it makes for a happier life.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
Hello carlhalling..you were right, we need a self control but sometimes we can't control our tempers right? that's why we can hurt them and say not good words. Mostly, people always tried to control and avoid this because I know the feelings. good thing that you can control it .
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Godbless
@maean_19 (4656)
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
It cannot be avoided that we sometimes hurt other people's feelings. We get mad, we get disappointed and it is hard to control it because we want to let it out or release it for us to be relieved.
I hurt people, I admit that. But there are times that I am the one who is always hurt because I don't keep it.
However, I have ways to control my emotions because I don't want to hurt anyone.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
Hello maean..Me too, I can't stop and help it to hurt someone's feeling and it is natural. I know it's not good but we need to burst our feelings and ask sorry after happened. Better to go away, stay in the room if you didn't want to hurt others feelings. That's a better idea.
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Godbless
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
I'm exactly like this, or was like this although physically. Whenever I'm being dissed and I know I'm not doing anything I fight back physically. There are times when I'll provoke the other to get angry enough that he'll start to hit me first for me to get a clean name.
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
Hello frontvisions..Really? It hurts and i can't do that. Asking forgiveness is good for me if I hurt someone not asking to hit me. don't do that again. Better to stay sweet and calm//...
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Godbless
@cashsearcher11 (153)
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
sometimes... i cant avoid it. why that someone also hurts my feelings?
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
Hello cashsearcher..Of course friend, they are only human and can also hurt us. I remember before that my love hurt my feelings and it is sad because I can't really forget those times. Even if after what happened they ask forgiveness, still it is always in my heart that he hurt me. It's bad.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead.
Godbless
@crimsonladybug (3112)
• United States
8 Feb 11
I try very hard not to get angry with people I care about because I have a really bad tendency to say the most hurtful thing I can think of - whether it's true or not. It's a very horrible thing to do, I know and that's why I try to keep my temper in check. :(
@careguarden (5670)
• Philippines
8 Feb 11
Hello crimsonladybug..Yeah, we need to control ourself and just like you I tried also to don't hurt other people's feelings especially love one because sometimes if I get mad and not in the good mood,I have lots of bad words came in my mouth and that's it..Spreading to others but after the outburst, back to normal, I ask forgiveness for what I've said and I don't know if they really forgive me.Next time, better go to the far places if I get mad to avoid hurting others feelings.That's all.
Well, thanks for sharing your comments with us and have a nice day ahead.
Godbless
