Why do people FIGHT to solve their problems?

United States
November 19, 2006 1:46am CST
I notice that alot of people would fight to solve their problems instead of just talking it out like an adult would.. What do you think is the cause of this kind of behavoir?
11 responses
@emarie (5442)
• United States
19 Nov 06
it dumb and primitive. its basicly instict for most people. going back to the cave man days thats how you solved any problem. if all people would just figure other ways to solve their problems other then fighting and wars the world would be a much better place.
• United States
19 Nov 06
wonderful statement stated.
@emarie (5442)
• United States
22 Nov 06
thanks =)
@lucysgj (92)
• China
19 Nov 06
I think most of people do this because they don't want to "lose faces" before the other people.They want to show that they are better,they are stronger,and they are undefeatable. So....
• United States
19 Nov 06
yeah I get what you're trying to say. This does apply to alot of people that I know but again, it's not a smart or bright way to solve problems or issue we all got. Know what I mean?
@dhaeo_09 (1007)
• Philippines
19 Nov 06
I think it is because no one can accept ones own fault because of PRIDE. Just like James Hetfield said "To secure peace is to prepare for war".
• United States
19 Nov 06
Oh okay... that's a nice statement.. really understandable.
@blueman (16509)
• India
19 Nov 06
it depends largely on the nature of the person.
• United States
19 Nov 06
Yes, it really does depend...
• United States
19 Nov 06
Low brain function. Power struggles. Attention struggles. Immaturity.
• United States
19 Nov 06
Someone did their homework. I like the way how you type it. Good one.
• Romania
19 Nov 06
that's easy... if you don't FIGHT you get EATEN!!!
• United States
19 Nov 06
what?! Eaten!? No way... who's gonna eat who now???
@achilles7 (1276)
• India
19 Nov 06
We can not solve a problem just by fighting.By fighting the solution becomes complex and the problem remais unsolved.The mature way of solving a problem is healthy discussion.
@Kelian (768)
• Trinidad And Tobago
22 Nov 06
Some people have very short fuses I guess. Adult behavior is learned behavior and not everyone has learned it. I agree that it is always better to talk things out in an adult manner. The world would be a better place if everyone did.
@Undefeated (4788)
• Singapore
22 Nov 06
Because they feel that fight can help them solve their problem. =D
• China
19 Nov 06
Because a majority of people do NOT want to fail, they fight for something they are going through. They exert to tackle the problem so that they can successfully get out of it. You might know this quite well, i.e., One of the few rights that America does not proclaim is the right to fail. Also, achievement is the national god, worshipped in American media.
• United States
19 Nov 06
Well... okay. So fighting is good to solve problems then?
• United States
19 Nov 06
cuz people are stupid like that :D