To Anyone Who Doesnt Want Me On His/Her Discussions or Responses

Hi Thesids, Obviously someone was really mean to you. I don't get it. I've never ever seen you be anything but polite and you add to the discussions. Whoever it is, just ignore them. I'm sure that a majority of us are not going to be sending you those 3 little letters.

Hello Sid, First you tell me what made you to write these words. Who hurts you badly? See barking and biting is a part of mylotting and we can’t expect politeness from everybody. I have been interacting with you for the last two months and what I felt about you is a positive guy with lots of care and love for the family members. I really don’t know what is forcing you to think like this way. Hope nothing is serious and this is just a ‘note’ for your family members.

Thesid What has happened, just ignore People who are like that I certainly do want you on my Discussion as you are a wonderful Friend to have, so Ignore the Members who find it necessary to be nasty

Oh Boy.....what is happening while I'm gone??? Of course, NOONE can tell you to keep away from any discussion in myLot. If your comments or responses are against the guidelines, admins will delete it/them. Anyway thesids, you are always welcome to pop in and do whatever you want in my discussions. You want to dance naked on the table, be my guess. Oops, that might actually be considered indecent by other members....you got the drift anyway...

Hello thesids, I'm sure this discussion has some addressee well known to you, and I think (hope? ) I'm not one of them, but if you have any problem on my hopping on to your discussion and / comment and DO NOT want me to Interact with you, then Please PM me. I can't wait to find an interesting topic to start (it doesn't happen too often to me, you know...) to see if there is anything that will keep you away from my discussions.

Hello my friend! What happened?! I'm not used to seeing or hearing you like this. I never thought this could happen to you or anyone in mylot. I know we are here to have discussions and interact to it so how come one doesn't want you to participate in a discussion? You said he is not responding..maybe he/she hasn't read it yet that's why there's no response. You can pm him/her my friend and tell him/her your true feelings about it. I suggest don't let yourself be bothered by just one mylotter who happens to make you feel this way. You have a lot of friends Sids and those friends are always here with you,that includes me. Hope this will be resolved soon.

thesids, Well, just to let you know that you aren't the only one that receives such insensitive and discriminating remarks and it is from someone of 'seniority' too. It is a shame that we have such senior members, but myLot is a free societal site - so do expect some rotten apples in the barrel. I had comments like: "Skysuccess, I would appreciate that you do not respond to my discussions....blah blah blah" before, so what's new at your end? Look, I see you've come out unscathed where your DRS is still at top optimum and still able to post and respond as you want. So, I say leave this idiots in their village and remember not to go a visit in the future. As for the ADMIN, I wonder if we could put up a roster like a "Shame Roll" for such members so that others can read and see what kinda person such members are. And, that they be penalized with a DRS reduction (-2)! What do you think?

You have got to be joking? Whoever told you this doesn't realise that it will be their loss and not yours. You don't need friends like that at all. I'm sure it won't be difficult for you to find other topics to participate in and skip theirs and they will soon miss you - but never go back even if they offer an apology

Hi thesid, You know there are 598 friends in my list and most of them are up and throbbing but when I post a common subject there is no response there. Now if you do not wish to respond my discussion it is ok but please do not put all those craps.

Sorry then. Whoever it was do this to them.

Let me state unequivocally, no user has the right to tell you that you cannot take part in their discussions. Who was it that told you this?

And if I want to keep you in my discussions, thesids, what message does I have to send ?

i was just thinking of starting a similar kind of discussion today i replied to a discusiion on how to lose weight. i typed a long text, longer than what i usually would and added a few useful links connected to the topic. the person who started the discussion replied to everyone other than me. Also the responses were around 20, and mine was in the first page!??? how rude is that now!?? did you face a similar situation thesids!??

Hi anna, i don't feel all these. We are here to spend our good time with friends, gain some knowledge earn a little amount also. I never feel such like that because purpose is different and i am the one what i treat them is important and not others treat me. So no such question will arise. Be happy anna with whatever we have and whatever we are doing since we do good, don't bother about others negative attitude. Have a good day.

Hmmm...looks like someone's really upset with you and you are upset with them. Anyway I'm not going to be the one sending you a PM. I usually try to respond/comment to everyone who responds to my discussions. But sometimes, some people are rude and if I've seen that that's the way they are with everyone, I might choose to be silent and ignore. But yes, it is difficult to take a lot of nonsense when it is directed at me.

Are you having problems with trolls? A troll is a person who instead of calmly tell you they Strongly disagree and just avoid your posts, they go to all your posts and say bad things and try to get your star to go down. It is a waste of their time but I guess they seem to enjoy it. I love your idea of just getting a list so you never drop in on their posts. But if they won't do this , and you get More grief. Just report them. This is a forum for people , not a playground for trolls.

I have no clues what prompted you to write what you wrote here. There is no reason for anyone to dislike certain people to respond or barged in to their discussions. Mylot is an open forum so being selective should not arise. I am always open to all views.

Anybody is welcome on my discussions any time.

If you don't want that particular person to respond to your discussion just remove him from your friend's list so he won't get notifications of your discussions. But as I have seen in past your discussion are seen many times in today's top discussions so he might access it from there also.

I go to sleep for a few hours and someone has insulted my thesids... Honey, chaingang, pop-in, take over and run with my discussions anytime sweetie, I have no issues with anyone participating in my discussions at all. This is why we are all here. If anyone does not like it then they should not be a member of myLot, as the idea is to discuss.. so why does anyone get upset about that. We all need to understand that although we start discussions, we do not own them, as they are free to be discussed at anytime, even long after we are gone.