Introductions in the washroom

shaking hands inside a washroom - introductions inside a washroom
@bounce58 (17387)
Canada
February 11, 2011 1:20pm CST
This is too funny, too awkward to pass up for a discussion. Have you ever been introduced to anybody in a washroom? I meet with suppliers all the time. I usually go to their facilities, but once in a while they come to our place. While I was waiting for a supplier today, I quickly ran into the washroom. A few moments later, this guy wearing a shirt with the supplier name on it came in. I immediately realize that he was the guy I was waiting for. So, we introduced ourselves, but after an awkward moment, we feigned on shaking each other’s hand. It was weird. Have you ever shaken anybody’s hand inside a washroom? Would you get offended if they did not want to shake your hands if you are, or were just in the washroom? Do you do a mental check, and try to remember if the other person washed his or her hands? What would you have done in my situation?
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@moirai (2836)
• Philippines
12 Feb 11
LOL!!! xD Hmm... Well, I guess it's possible that I've been introduced to someone in the washroom. I can't really remember, but there are certainly some occasions when this could have happened. But I don't think I've ever shaken anyone's hand while in the washroom. It's more likely that we said 'hello, nice to meet you' and waved/nodded and smiled to each other, not shaken hands. Come to think of it, though, shaking hands would probably be more appropriate when meeting clients and all people business-related... So if I were in such a situation, what would I have done? Maybe something like this: a) I'll excuse myself a bit, wash and dry my hands (obviously in front of the other person) before I offer my hand for a shake. a1) If the person just came into the washroom from outside, then there would be no problem if he shakes my hand as well. =P a2) If the person has used the washroom, I would hope that when I offer my hand, he too would excuse himself a bit, wash and dry his hands, before shaking my hand. =P a3) But what if he doesn't and I have no way of knowing if he has or has not yet washed his hands after using the washroom, and he shakes my hand? Then I suppose making a mental note of that would be a good idea. =P After leaving the washroom, I'll think of some excuse, leave him for a bit saying I'll be right back, then I'll run to some other sink and wash again. =P Or if not, at least grab some hand sanitizer somewhere. Then go back to where I left him. Hahaha. xD OR! b) I can put off shaking hands with him until later. If this is someone I really had a meeting with, then I expect we will continue our meeting somewhere more appropriate. I don't expect our meeting will end inside the washroom. =P Maybe I can shake his hand at the end of our meeting instead of at the moment we met. =) As for your other question, I would not get offended if someone refused to shake my hand in the washroom. =) Hahaha! Too funny, indeed! xD
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@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 Feb 11
Wow moirai! You seem to have given a really complete response. Even the excuses that I would have thought of, you've already enumerated it. And yes, our meeting didn't ended in the washroom. It was awkward for a bit, but we soon forgot about it as soon as the 'real business' was discussed. Thanks.
@moirai (2836)
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
Thanks for the BR!
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
17 Feb 11
Hi. bounce58. I don't think that I have shaken any females hand while they were in the washroom. I would feel kind of funny about shaking hands while I am in the bathroom. I would be wondering if the person washed their hands or not too. Knowing me, I would try to avoid shaking someones hand. If I had to, I would wash my hands before I leave the bathroom though.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
20 Feb 11
I know what you mean! It would really be awkward. At the back of your head, there would be a fight between not being rude and personal hygiene. I think hygiene would win all the time though. Thanks.
@dawnald (85135)
• Shingle Springs, California
11 Feb 11
I was just thinking, did they wash their hands first? lol
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 Feb 11
That would have been the first thing on my mind! Even if I conceded and shook the guy's hand, I would have stayed in the washroom to wash my hands again. Still, I'd hate to do it.
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@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
14 Feb 11
During the time of my life when I was spending a lot of time hanging out at bars, there were a lot of times that one of my friends that was at the bar would introduce me to someone else that they knew that was also at the bar. It was very ackward to say the least when that would happen. Now that I take the time to think about it, there was never a time that I would shake hands with the people that I was introduced to in the bathroom.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 Feb 11
I guess meeting people at bars would be the same thing. You never know where they were 5 minutes ago. But like you, back then I think I was not concerned about hygiene that much. More on the meeting girls. Haha!
• United States
11 Feb 11
Eek, I have not had the fortune of shaking someone's hands in the washroom. But if I ever do I would refrain as my first thought would be that have they washed their hands. Yuck! I suppose I could say excuse me please, allow me to wash my hands first, with the hopes they do the same. Yikes!
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 Feb 11
Yeah, you could have the good intentions to wash your hands, hoping that they did the same. But what if they still didn't! Anyway, it was an awkward moment. Something that I don't have any intentions of repeating. So from now on, go an hour before. Or hold it!
@iris17 (12)
• Philippines
12 Feb 11
That's a funny story. Fortunately for me that never happened before. But if it would (heaven forbid) I would not shake their hand. I would excuse myself and wash my hand so that person would see and hopefully that gesture would be like a wake up call for her to do the same. It's not offending to me. It's just respect and good hygiene.
@bounce58 (17387)
• Canada
16 Feb 11
I've gathered from this discussion that, that would be the right thing to do. To let the other person see you washing your hand in the hopes that they would do the same. And if they didn't, then that would be a good enough excuse for me not to shake their hands. Thanks and welcome to myLot!