My Best Friend is not talking to me
By saurabh_rmp
@saurabh_rmp (846)
India
February 15, 2011 2:52am CST
Hi all,
WE became good friend while working in my previous company. Then he left the job and moved to some other company and I also changed my company and joined the same company but in dufferent team. While joining that company, he was also the reason. But after coming here we met only 2 times that is also in Office also and I only went to his department and met.
Everytime I asked, he said I am busy. I think he dont wants to talk to me. I really feel bad.............
4 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
16 Feb 11
don't jump into conclusions first... maybe your friend really is just busy with the new work, after all both of you are just new in the job... just give him some time and don't be pushy... after all you are friends and friends need not always spend time as much as lovers do, right? =)
@saurabh_rmp (846)
• India
16 Feb 11
u r correct, but friend should meet atleast. Whnever we meet 2 times in 10 months, I only took the first step,but from his side nothing is happened.
@Little_Stormy (6883)
• United States
16 Feb 11
My best friend hasn't talked to me in months... when you find out what to do about it, or how to break the silence, please let me know. It's heartbreaking.
@saurabh_rmp (846)
• India
16 Feb 11
Definetely I will let you know about my steps, whcih I followed to contct my friend and start talking to him.
@concept001 (430)
• India
15 Feb 11
I guess that he is disturbed. So, I would really advice you to give him some time. Friendship is not a give and take relationship. You have to give him some time and slowly approach him and ask what the problem is. If you have not done anything wrong you need not feel bad. Relationship can't be maintained alone. We require two people for healthy relationship.
@saurabh_rmp (846)
• India
16 Feb 11
May be u r correct. But while thinking about my friendship, I am also getting disturbed and that is bothering me a lot. I think I have to give him some more time till he got freed.
@sexyice (873)
• Latvia
15 Feb 11
Buy two tickets to his favorite games. One ticket to send him, with a note which says something nice from a previous game. And say that you want to repeat it. No good fan will not be able to refuse! If he refuses, he will tell you why. Or ask the reason someone else his friend.
I hope everything will be fine.
@saurabh_rmp (846)
• India
16 Feb 11
good Idea. But there is problem that we both have one favorite game i.e. Crikcet and right now there is no cricket game in my city. Anyhow I will definetely try this idea in future.
