my mother

United States
February 17, 2011 12:50am CST
I do not live with my mother and she is a not a very good person she steals from me, leaves me for guys and treats me really bad. She treats her cat better than me. She takes all the child support and has never gave me any of the money. I really dont know what to do. I love my mom because she gave birth to me but I DO NOT LOVE her. Sometimes i wish i had a different mother its hard to even talk to her because she is always yelling at me and drinking and being a total rude person. Anyone got any advice?
1 response
@nyjenson (11)
• United States
20 Feb 11
The only thing you can really do is become a better person in spite of the crappy circumstances that surround your home life. Nothing can be done about your mother, she is who she is... its harsh but that is the reality of life, you cannot change a person but that doesnt matter because your life is yours and you just need to trudge past the rough spots and make a path where you will be valued as a person. If you are underage then I would also suggest maybe reporting her to the child protection agency... that would sober her up real quick, at least for a little bit. I have been through similar situations and even though my childhood was total crap I can honestly say it made me a stronger person and my life is now free of drama and negative people.
• United States
21 Feb 11
exactly that is about all i can do is become at better me. I know how she is i know she doesnt care the good thing is i dont live with her so i dont have to live with it anymore her problems are hers she always plays the guilty card on people to make herself feel better i know i will be a better parent because she was not. I will be a better person because she pushed me to be this way! Thank you for you advice