Would you believe that love match is in the hands of God?
@dayangsumbi2010 (1724)
Indonesia
February 19, 2011 1:31am CST
Would you believe that marriage has been arranged by God?
if indeed the Lord who regulate and determine, in this world why so many divorces?
Why so many husbands who abuse their wives and vice versa?
Why do many children devastated by 'broken home'?
Is not God is omniscient and always give the best for his people!
I personally believe life is a choice, it all depends on how we choose, God gives us free will! but HE created boundaries, so we are not disappointed and regret, and for you I do not believe in God, and even then your choice.
Thank you for your attention, I just want to know any feedback from you, certainly diverse opinions.
6 people like this
10 responses
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
26 Feb 11
I guess everyone had a choice.
God does exist, but he gave us choice.
If according to the Christian, God gave the problem (threat of divorce, domestic violence, etc.) so we get closer to Christ.
Examples of people who are divorced, etc., is that failed to pass the exam of Tuham.
@kendedes2011 (2712)
• Indonesia
24 Feb 11
When God completed on the human ability to reason, humans have been free to choose. We are not like animals who only follow the will of God. For example a large body of animals, if his destiny he herbivores, until whenever he's not going to meat.
Back again to man, God-given reason is to vote. Mate and destiny in God's hands should only limited understanding that God is aware of what has been, is and will happen. Man please vote.
@jennbart (1325)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
People marry for a lot of reasons. Some just cannot wait and just jumps to whoever available just so they wont be branded as single. Some marry for "practical reasons" they dont really love the person, but they agreed to the marriage because they believe that marrying the person will uplift them to poverty. We people should also act intelligently and not just depend on God. If somebody abuses me, then I will get out of that relationship asap.There is a God, but then, he only helps who asked for guidance and also help themselves.
@gengeni (3308)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 11
Divorce happens normally .. because of lack of communication, a sense of selfishness, jealousy, a sense of always short and we were well off .. among married couples ..
Mate, destiny, fortune belongs to God, but we can change it only with our wishes .. also about life is ours, we must be smart to choose what's been shown / opened by the Lord. If we could choose to improve our relationship .. I believe divorce is inevitable .. but if we do not want to, sure divorce is the best way although the road was very hateful to God.
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
20 Feb 11
Mate in the Hand of God, it is true, can you prove it with her in a sincere prayer.
Mate can also result in the karma / good his bad deeds a person who is recorded in the Cosmic world.
Divorce, due to not able to maintain love in ourselves, how can give love to others / spouse?
Hopefully Useful.
@thereza (314)
• Philippines
20 Feb 11
I agree. God has a perpect plan for us. For our success and lovelife, we are the only one that's makes wrong decision on choosing and takes the wrong paths.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
19 Feb 11
No God does not arrange marriages! Each person gets to choose parents, spouses, and children, even the country of birth. This happens before that person is reincarnated. The reasoning is to balance experiences and to learn from them. If a marriage is dysfunctional, a lesson can be learned, and perhaps this will lead to happier marriages in the future.
@sender621 (14889)
• United States
19 Feb 11
When you have fait and belief in God, then God is the ruler in every aspect of your life. This is equally true of your love life. God is not only existent in one part of your life, but of it all. @dreamnishu (1247)
• China
19 Feb 11
of course my dear friend i hardly believe that everything including love has been arranged by ALLAH.when we was born that time ALLAH match a person for us.every thing is happening because of that ALLAH wants.divorces it is happens because of two people did not attach each other,misunderstanding,some family problem,some time relationship with others etc.but at the end of this they can found their real life partner.i thing all is happen because our ALLAH wants that for us.
thanks a lot.
@pelgerhuet (136)
• Philippines
19 Feb 11
i believe if a person prayed for the right person for him,he will surely find him.why so many divorces?ever thought of the reasons of this people getting into marriage?do they really love each other?i think these things happen because we always follow what we wanted,not what the Lord wants for us.i got friends who told me they really prayed for their spouses and i see that these people have a nice relationship.they told me to put God in the center of the relationship,it strengthen their relationship with each other.i can only share based on the experiences of others.
