what's your opinion about lovers?

China
February 21, 2011 10:46pm CST
hello , my dear friends ! long time no see . today my new dicussion here is about love, i could clearly remenber that when i first fall in love with a girl,at that time i think i will never fall in love with other girl. but as the time goes. i break up with her. in the following years.i met several girls. and we still have a great time together , so there's a idea comes to me that one man or a women could fall in love with many times with different people. i don't if this is a good phenomenon as i come to this conclusion. so anybody who have them own opinion about this topic please share with me here ! tks a lots!
16 responses
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 11
Yes, I am of the same opinion as you that people can fall in love several times in life. Time is the best healer and circumstances offer another chance. So for the broken heart need not to bury deep in their sorrows as given time and another circumstances they will love again.
• China
22 Feb 11
hi! jennyze! i'm glad to know you agree with my thoughts , and from your reply i could see that u're a very optimistic person. so nomatter what will happen in this life, we could take any attitude but escape, we could learn and then get strong ! thanks again for your wonderful idea!
• China
23 Feb 11
i think you're already done very good, those ups and down, that is part of our life, that something we have to go through.sometimes life could be dramatic. we want something or someone so much ,we tried everyway and we made a big plan, but things just don't happan in that way. i also been there before ,my dear friend. u are not alone! so next time when you're upset by those dog days. don't feel sorry and keep moving! best wishes to u ,my friend !
@jennyze (7029)
• Indonesia
22 Feb 11
Now, I am getting embarrassed as I don't always have this optimistic attitude in life. Just as others experienced, I had the ups and down in life, I also ranted and getting frustrated when things did not go as I expected, but I tried to forgive myself and others on what happened so I can free of those negative feelings.
@StarBright (2798)
• United States
22 Feb 11
The love of one person does not always mean to exclude love for all others. The love of one person may mean you commit to a relationship that means you must love others from a distance. When you build history with the love of your life, the love will grow deeper along with the comfort level, and you will begin to wonder how you ever survived before. At least that is how it should be.
• United States
22 Feb 11
PS Zsz Zsz Gabor has been married 9 times. Was each of those times caled love?
• United States
22 Feb 11
Looks like I have a sticky keyboard. Zsa Zsa. Sorry.
• China
22 Feb 11
hello ~ StarBright! i agree with what you told about love. responsibility,care,understading,and loyal. thank you my friend !
@rameshchow (4426)
• India
22 Feb 11
My openion on now lovers: *In old age(like our grandparents generation) they are loved with eyes only. They feel more shy. Even they have no chance to see up to their marriage time each other. *In middle age(our parents age) the lovers were somewhat open, and they are in a position to express their feelings. But they can't win their love, they failed in turning the love as marriage. *Coming to latest generation, the lovers already crossed their limits. They become parents before marriage, they are enjoying the advanced results.
• China
25 Feb 11
hello! rameshchow! tks for give me this good all-sided perspective of love of different age about love. it's quite funny! aha ! thanks a lot!
• India
25 Feb 11
You can explain your feelings on love....
@Jiabsa (511)
• India
22 Feb 11
If your love is sincere, you can't love another girl. Love is just time pass for you. That is the reason, why you are chasing more and more girls again and again. You are like a butterfly......Am I right?
• China
23 Feb 11
hello my dear friend , i afraid u have misunderstood me about this topic. i think my experience is not about girls, is about love. my point is not about i could chasing lots of different girls .and actually i haven't did that way. what i willing to tell all of u is no matter what kind is the hurt u've got in love and no matter what u've lost whitch means a lot to u . u could still get the strength and keep moving! best wishes to u !
@livecenter (1136)
• Malaysia
22 Feb 11
I have always believed that love is all about understanding of each other...If you cannot in a complete understanding between each other, there is no use for you to continue your relationship...As for me, it is not wrong to fall in love as many times as you wanted, but do make sure that your last one is the love you really wanted...You don't want your relationship ends badly after putting so much effort, do you?
• China
22 Feb 11
hello , livecenter! i gotta say you've made a very good point here! understading , this is the most thing we should remember when handle a relationship. but at the same time people are eager to express their own ideas and do not have the space to take other's feeling. i feel sorry that i didn't doing very well in this part. thats again for your good advise .livecenter!
• Malaysia
25 Feb 11
hello, huangdangwu! Thanks for the best response mark...I didn't notice it, has been not around for some days...Frankly, it really make my day! Glad to be able to help...
• China
22 Feb 11
It is difficult to say a person could fall in love with many times.someone is not.In our China,many couples fall in love the first time and they could live a happy life.Maybe the key is the right person.If he is your Mr.Right,you may be with him a life time.If not,you don't match with her,maybe your characters are oppisite or you have different ideas about life or other things.Most people find the true love they want so they will end their single.So i think the right person is the most important factor.
• United States
22 Feb 11
I have only been in love 2 times my whole life and i am 22 years old, but i hae dated more than 2 people. Can you be in a relationship with someone and not be in love?
• Malaysia
22 Feb 11
I can't agree more with manda6994...You can't be in a relationship with someone without even loving him/her...The right person is also an important factor...Choose wisely, as you wanted the marriage to be the first and the last...
• China
22 Feb 11
thanks very much ,my dear friends ! i'm very happy to see those precious ideas here. as three of you've said, the key point is the "right person". so i think these fall in love with others is the journey in our lifetime , everyone in this journey have different experience but for one goal --- to find the right person ! so my happy westcoat friend . may u have a good journey !
@dreamnishu (1247)
• China
22 Feb 11
hello friend! i know it is happen but not for everyone.some people fall in love one time in life.now a days i think love is a part of fashion.people can make relation with someone at the same time they can flatting with others.i do not think that it is love.if someone like to spend time with other it is not mean that it is love.i think love is so great ,so beautiful from our thinking.i think most of lover do time pass with each other.if they get better option then they will go for that. thanks a lot.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
22 Feb 11
Yes, you can fall in love many times. There is no universal rule that define everyone should only fall in love once. Go follow your heart, and if you love someone else, and not your ex, go for her. You couldn't control who you going to love the most. It is your heart tell you who is your best love right?
22 Feb 11
i loved two girs ago,however, both were not perfect.so i'm not sure when i can go to the thrid affection.may i should do my best first. and i hope my lovers would understand me. i just think a lot ,and my mind is so unnormal,hehe.
• India
22 Feb 11
Yes friend. We should not be depressed if a girl does'nt like us or dump as or if we feel she is not right for us. We should move on. Remember this, If you are not with someone means , Someone else is waiting for you somewhere else. Try and find that person. If you meet that girl, You will hear bells ringing inside you, Bulbs glowing over you . So find the perfect girl, dont waste your time with some one you think you love, Find the one with whom you will feel the love. Thats my opinion.
@katie0 (5203)
• Japan
22 Feb 11
oh yes we can it was hard to break up sometimes and at the time it always seems like i was never gonna to love again, but the truth is we can fall in love infinite times, i think we are loving beings, we came here to love
@monty21 (119)
• India
22 Feb 11
These days, nobody can find true love. It is just nothing more than attraction. Same is the case with me as i fallen in love with many girls. As per my thinking, it is not true love. So don't care about these things and go ahead. There are so many things to do in the life. I will suggest you not to fall in love again. Just make friends but not girlfriends. I am not saying that girls are bad. I am talking about love and both girls and boys are the bad if they fall in love again and again.
• China
23 Feb 11
aha,it's easy to fool around and it's hard to settel down, u could have a good time with many girls but not girlfriend. but i think u may found the true love because we indeed need that in our life! best wishes to u !
• United States
23 Feb 11
In my opinion love is about tolerance. Staying with your partner through tough times and staying with your partner even through all their flaws. Love is a good feeling you get everyday whenever you see that special someone. Love is the greatest feeling in the world that gives such happiness. People often mistake love for lust.
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
You haven't just found the right person for you. She is the one who can never be replaced by any girl better than her. You haven't found the true love. I can't describe the feeling but it is something different, something that moves you, controls you. You fall in love many times to explore the world of love and search for the right one. I suggest, don't look after it because it comes unexpectedly in an uncanny situations most of the time. it may give you headache for what i'm telling you. Go down deep to understand love and relationship. Let me give you a simple quote of mine to help you comprehend about love;" 'I love you' is not just a message to deliver but the feelings that can't be uttered.. "
@chavezrmc (6095)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
We humans are capable to love and be loved. when we are in relationship we are in the stage of knowing each other deeper. This where we will know if we are compatible with each other. But as we have different attitudes so that's the time we broke up with our partner, i guess coz love is never that strong to hold on to each other. But when we truly love each other then we can accept everything in that person and that is what we call true love. It doesnt matter if we are in a relationship many times as long as we do it one at a time.You can't say it cheating just trying to find the right person for you.
• India
22 Feb 11
Love Is noting!!