Should I tell that her bf is cheating on her?
By mathikyu
@mathikyu (46)
Malaysia
February 22, 2011 1:08am CST
I just met her a few days ago, her BF lives next to me. They have been seeing each other for a while . 20 minutes after she left to go home his boyfriend had another girl over trying to get in pants before he had to go. He was telling me how he thinks this girl can work and how he could gotten another girl preggo. Should I tell his GF? Any answer?
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7 responses
@fjclolazy (859)
• China
22 Feb 11
If you tell his girl the true.Would she believe what u say?If she believes,go ahead and tell her.It's good for her!Don't let someone hurt poor people...
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
28 Feb 11
It would depend if the girl and I were acquaintances and or friends as I can't imagine friending someone and not being truthful. It is hurtful later and she may not be happy with you when she finds out you knew and did not tell her.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
22 Feb 11
Hi. mathikyu. Although it is wrong for him to be cheating on his girlfriend, it is also wrong for you to mettle into an neighbor affairs. Don't get offended when I tell you this. Let her catch him in the act, and then he will be as good as toast~!
He is a dirty guy that preys on women. But he has to understand, that the more girls he get pregnant, the more money he will have to dish out if his azz gets placed on Child Support!
He is a dirty guy that preys on women. But he has to understand, that the more girls he get pregnant, the more money he will have to dish out if his azz gets placed on Child Support!
@alindobre (148)
• Romania
22 Feb 11
Does the girl mean anything to you? If you care for her, even a little bit, a friendly talk could be the solution. But be prepared to face the eventual consequences, in case he finds out you told her.
@atprudente6 (673)
• Philippines
23 Feb 11
Hi mathikyu. Is your neighbor or his GF are somewhat related to (both are your friends or the like). Then if it is you should tell the girl about what your neighbor is doing. It would also help if you give some advice to your neighbor so that for him to realize his mistake.
But if any means they are not related to you, then you should not butt in to their business. let them handle the situation. Let the girl caught them in the act.
But if your conscience does not make you silence, then all you need to do is just pray that your neighbor would realize what he is doing and that he would stop it.
@sais06 (1284)
• Philippines
22 Feb 11
If I would be in your position I'd rather not get involved so as to stay away from trouble. That's their own business after all and I don't know if you're that affected by that.
But if your conviction and conscience tells you to do it then follow it so that it won't haunt you. Just make sure that he won't be able to find out that it was you who exposed him and still if ever be prepared for trouble.
Well what I just mean is that follow what your conscience tells you.
Well what I just mean is that follow what your conscience tells you.
