How to get pregnant ?
By tash01
@tash01 (2030)
Jamaica
February 22, 2011 7:40pm CST
Pleasant good evening to you all.
Am just writing to ask a few question in order to help answer my friend question.I have a friends and she has been married a maybe four years now and she have two(2) kids already but not for her husband.
How she is trying to get pregnant again for her husband because her husband haven't get a child has yet.
She ask me to day if she has to visit the doctor so the doctor could maybe help her out.I told she could try,because she don't know if the problem is with her husband are her.
and she ask again how can she get pregnant again ? I don't know what to say to her and that question.
4 responses
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
23 Feb 11
She and her husband will have to visit their doctors as she will need to get her ovaries, uterus and blood testing to determine if all is okay with the fertility. An actually a fertility doctor is who they have to see.
Reason why he has to see the fertility doctor is so they do a sperm count. Some men have low density sperm count and or some women have high uterus. So it can be a combination and or one of the above mentioned.
But there is no way to determine without the proper testing. Although she has had children it does not rule out that she has a problem.
Best of luck to her as children for me are such a blessing, especially when you have two so willing parents.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
23 Feb 11
Children is a blessings form God.She will be visiting the doctor this week, so that she can get check out. So what you saying both of them show visit the doctor an get a check ? she is 35 years old i don't think would have a problem though.
but am just going to call her now and pass this information on to her.
thank you for your respond hardworkinggurl have a wonderful evening.
@hardworkinggurl (37062)
• United States
23 Feb 11
It would okay for her to be check alone, this way she can find out if anything is wrong or not for her. Some men get offended to be checked as they feel it is embarrassing. If all is okay with her and nothing in her life is contributing to her non-pregnancy then she can speak to her husband.
Surely any loving husband would want to do what ever it takes to make sure and perhaps get help.
I do wish them luck as my sister in law has been married for 35 wonderful and happy years and has never been pregnant. They both got checked but it turns out that it was her uterus was too high, so by the time the sperm makes it there the die. They tried invetro many times and unfortunately have never been blessed.
Sad really as she and he both would be the best parents in the world. I do wish you friend many blessings because I cannot imagine life without my two kids. 
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
23 Feb 11
If she and her husband have been trying to get pregnant for a period of time and it is not happening for them, then there is a chance that there could be something wrong with either her reproductive system or her husband's reproductive system. What your friend and her husband will need to do is to visit a reproductive specialist and both be checked to find out if there is a problem. If there is any kind of problem, that doctor should be able to help them through it.
@tash01 (2030)
• Jamaica
23 Feb 11
My friend have two (2) kids before and she was taking birth control way back. she said she having trying to give her husband a child.But she will be visiting the doctor office this weekend to get a check up to see what the problem is.
Thank you for your respond my friend have a wonderful day.
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
2 Mar 11
Stress can prevent a lady getting pregnant. I know a lady that tried to get pregnant for 8 years and then when she stopped trying she got pregnant with twin boys. I have a friend that had trouble getting pregnant and she got pregnant whilst on vacation. She was relaxed and was not worried about conceiving. Your friend has two children so it is likely her husband might have fertility problems. I suggest that your friend's husband visits a doctor that specializes in fertility. Then they will find out if he has any fertility problems if so these might get fixed. If not they might try getting a sperm donor maybe. Alternatively they could consider adopting a baby or child. All it might be is stress and I hope so. Good luck to your friend and her husband.
@DanaS2011 (351)
• United States
23 Feb 11
The problem may be neither your friend or her husband. It could simply be wrong timing. Yes the doctor will definitely help. He/she will help her figure out when she is fertile the most and when she is ovulating. This will help her know when her chances are better and when she and her husband should try to conceive. Good luck to your friend and have a healthy future pregnancy.
