how to deal with insecurities?

@kheydia (882)
Philippines
February 23, 2011 11:41pm CST
I sometimes feel insecure over things that are not really important, tell me how can i manage insecurities in life.
5 responses
purplefury04
@purplefury04 (28)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
know what i used to feel insecure every time i step out my feet to my home..i'm insecure because of my color but i keep motivating myself that my color is not an hindrance for me to get along with others...know what that is only a mother of self motivation and mind settling..
kheydia
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
Yeah, i agree with you it is indeed a matter of self motivation and mind setting, i know it's a hard task for me, but i know everything will gonna be work out just fine. thank you.
kheydia
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
25 Mar 13
I know i am special, just had to work it out... and it's been 3 years i'm sure im a better person now... =)
purplefury04
@purplefury04 (28)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
yeah that's right every things gonna be fine just believe into the things you can...always remember that every one of us is special...goodluck!!
ally12
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
I think to defeat your enemy you should know his weaknesses. for you to defeat your insecurity you should know what cause you to feel that way. You must learn what makes you insecure why it makes you insecure and there you can start to work things out.
ally12
@ally12 (1202)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
Its normal to find it difficult to admit our weaknesses. Who wants to know he has a less worth anyway? It really needs a guts and courage to accept the fact that we are less better than the others. That we are less like that and we are less like this. But ill tell you what, once you learned to accept yourself and started to love yourself, insecurities will never have its room in your life. And one thing more nobody was born less. We only have to discover what we got to boost our confidence and self esteem.
kheydia
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
25 Mar 13
correct! just be positive... i grow a bit better now...
kheydia
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
well, maybe you are right or you are really right, the fact is i'm afraid to know or best to say this way i wont admit to myself things that weakens me or make me feel insecure about. maybe, it is just about my personality i guess that i have to change.
kheigh
@kheigh (215)
•
24 Feb 11
it's easy for people to feel insecure whether it's over simple matters or not. sometimes, you just can't stop it. you just have to think of the things and people you have. know that you are blessed because you have them. remember and feel that you're the luckiest person in the world because you have family and friends who support you and that you have things that other people don't.
kheydia
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Yeah maybe your right, that i should think that i am a blessed person, but i can't help it, after that i can still feel insecure, maybe i'm just lack of self confidence.
Polang
@tkonlinevn (6357)
• Vietnam
24 Feb 11
You should tell them to your close friends or your family. We sometimes feel insecurities because we're alone and we rarely share our impressing with other people.
kheydia
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Yeah maybe one of the reason is that i feel i am a loner thats why i feel insecure, but i cannot tell it to my close friends or family about it 'coz i feel shy.
tiina05
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
hello, Insecurities is really natural for all human being. Even me I am feeling very insecure in many things and many people and sometimes I am thinking that I wish I am in her position but I am not. I have learn that I should accept who I am and accept what I have in my life, that I should be more contented in everything even I am not that much better person I will try my best to be who I am and improve what I have now. that's how I treat insecurities. If I am insecure in one person or thing I promise to myself that I will do things that make me much better than her. good luck
kheydia
@kheydia (882)
• Philippines
28 Feb 11
Great! i like what you have said, maybe i' am insecure because i do not love myself as well and do not believe on my capacity, i always feel embarrass with things that i do in the public. Maybe i should improve myself and love myself as who i am. thank you!