Would you cheat?

@katie0 (5203)
Japan
February 24, 2011 4:45am CST
In what cases would you cheat your boy/girlfriend? I think if I was cheated, but other than that no human being has the right to be in a relationship and betray other in their back. What do you think?
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12 responses
• United States
25 Feb 11
Oh gosh no matter how many times I have been cheated on I could never bring myself to do so. I love from the heart and cannot imagine hurting someone elses. I have no idea why some do as it is my thinking that it perhaps would be best to let go then to hurt someone you are suppose to be loving.
@devijay78 (1573)
• India
28 Feb 11
I agree completely with you hardworkinggurl. I love from my heart too and even if my significant other cheated me, I would never do that to him. More than anything else, it is self respect that stops me from even thinking of doing that. I will not degrade myself and treat myself cheaply just because someone I cared about did that to me. I can never cheat just to take revenge or for any reason for that matter. I always put my heart and soul into a relationship, whichever that is and cheating never comes into my mind.
• United States
28 Feb 11
Hi devijay, unfortunately I have been cheated on many times and have never had the urge to do so myself. As you I also put my heart and soul into any relationship I am in and have no regrets either over it.
@khalida (1126)
• India
21 Mar 11
that is so sweet. it is quite rare to find people like you actually. god bless. i think your partner is very lucky as you don't seem to be the person who is even capable of hate glad to meet you
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
8 Apr 11
Hi. katie0. No, I would not cheat at all on my partner. If I feel as if I don't want to be with him any longer, I will leave him alone for good. I would never wish to be unfaithful while I am still with him. I would just rather end the relationship between me and him.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
8 Apr 11
I don't want to sound pure or innocent but there are some instances that temptation is very hard to resist. I did one in the past and it really created a big fight with me and my GF in my relationship before. I must admit I hurt her deeply and it's all my fault because I play around with other girl. But after what happened I tried to stay away from temptation. I think all people will encounter cheating once in a while although some are not that serious. Some cheating could break away relationship and it's one thing that others should be taken in to consideration before submitting yourself in to the temptation.
@aerous (13434)
• Philippines
29 Mar 11
I don't like to cheat, my friend. Because I learn from the beginning that cheating is a kind of sin...I always pray that God, put me away from cheating my partner...
@khalida (1126)
• India
20 Mar 11
well i cant stand cheating or being cheated. it is a one shot action to destroy the loyalty, honestly, trust and belief in the person who had trusted you. it can be very hurting, insulting and probably disrespectful too. in a relationship, there are no excuses to cheat your partner. you have any problems or not satisfied by the way things are going, it is better to talk and solve it out than look for something else beyond the relationship and say the reason as a "factor" which was lacking.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
I don't really know but I don't want to cheat. If I have the urge to cheat, I will probably break up with my boyfriend first. I personally know the pain that cheating creates so I don't wish it to someone I love. I just don't get people who cheats. if you no longer want to be with that person then break up with them. If you want to cheat and wants to still be in a relationship then you are really screwed up.
• India
24 Feb 11
In any relationship trueness should be followed then only our relationship will be good forever. Now a days many of them come in to a relationship called Love, but they don't seem to be true in it....
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
You may want to do something bad to hurt him/her back, but that would never satisfy you either. So if you have been cheated let it be on him and do not let anger push you to do such things that wont help you in anyway.
@drinylane (117)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
if you were cheated by your boyfriend or girlfriend, you don't have to cheat too to get even. you just have to be true to yourself and decide if you could still reconcile with your partner. if not then go your separate ways.
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
There is no way I'd like that or do that. In the name of love CHEATING is so not cool. Even if guy cheats on me, that does not in any way give me the reasons to cheat too. IF anyone does that it means you are no better than your guy. Take a break first from a relationship, dump him. And that's the time for me to think what to do next... :)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
for respect is much important.. in a relationship if the other party already has no more feelings for she found another then that's it. do not prolong the agony of the other wonding what is happening to both of you
@tarazi (29)
• Israel
24 Feb 11
i think this is not The right way of starting up a friendship every thing have to be clear for booth sides Otherwise it well return to mockery of the other party and i think no body like that thanks