What can i do, unexpected problems are eating my brain...?

India
February 24, 2011 9:57am CST
I will expect tomorrow may be good for me, although today is full of depression and sad feelings. Tomorrow is coming. It is also same. No change. But there is a change coming in the type of problems. I can not predict from which angle it is coming. Friends, what we can do? How can i face this life journey?
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
24 Feb 11
Put on your big boy pants & go for it. U will be fine.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
25 Feb 11
That's just a little southern for you can do it...you are bigger than what you think.
• India
25 Feb 11
Thank you so much for your valuable words....
• India
24 Feb 11
Sorry, i didn't get u madam? Care to enlighten me...
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Ok..life can be repetitive..believe me when I say I know that. BUT tomorrow does bring another day. You know that, but I think you are looking at that day a little different than the way I do. Each day I have is a promise. That day can be anything that I decide to make it. Sure..I have to conform to certain work protocols BUT what I do in my own time is mine. As far as work..well..change starts within you. I can not tell you the trials I have faced within the company I work for. I have been there a long time. I wasn't ready for the position that I am in now when I first started. Stop for a moment..predict the angle...cut it off at the pass.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
25 Feb 11
Think outside of the box they have given you...you don't have to go a certain way..the job has to get finished..but you have the power to finish it in the manner you see fit. Take control to the point you are allowed...of course backed by company policies and if there needs to be a change..suggest it in a professional manner that keeps you protected.
• India
26 Feb 11
I always getting from you what i want. Thank you soo... much.
• India
25 Feb 11
I also have a will to do, but i don't know why i can not do it. I am spending much time in thinking only. And to start that work "the time will pass away". ... What i wanna say clearly is "To complete a work without any interruption within the time, what we to do, in what way we have to go?".
• United States
24 Feb 11
" This too shall pass" That is the saying my mom would tell me when I was upset at something. I Hated it . But she was right. All I can say is go throufgh this and on the other side you will appreciate the good things to come. Sometimes bad things have to happen so you will Really enjoy the good. Hang in there!
• India
24 Feb 11
Your mother words are really good and have to follow. I can...
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• United States
25 Feb 11
She would be so happy.
• Pamplona, Spain
24 Feb 11
Hiya rameshchow, I have noticed over the past few weeks a change in a lot of People´s outlook on life they seem less able to cope with anything at the moment. They are in some kind of depressive state. I have felt a little sad one or two Days myself. How do we get through all these changes. I think that first we are always changing whether we seem to be or not. Life forces us to move on whether we want to or not. Even if we don´t want to we are still changing then. How much do we change? I don´t have the answer to that either. Me like a lot of other People wonder whether the World has gone completely mad sometimes. If you are feeling down now it will pass. I welcome this feeling now sometimes because I am learning things from it that I could not have learned before. They are things that belong to the past but that can help me now and in the future too. Hope it passes for you and you feel much better now.
• India
24 Feb 11
Yes, we have to learn many things in life which are never faced earlier.
• Pamplona, Spain
24 Feb 11
Hiya remo, Have remembered that one. Learning things sometimes is not a nice thing like someone says down there a bit below me life cannot all be blossoms. We want life to be full of Blossoms yes because they please us and are nice to look at. But we have to look at those other things that are not Blossoms and deal with them as they come along too. Life can seem so unfair and unkind sometimes it can seem cruel but really it is not that way at least not all the time. Actually I love the Blossoms in the Spring and the Roses that grow around here and they are due out soon as well in about a months time I think. Are you better now?
• India
5 Mar 11
Well, all is well now for me. How r u?
@thanks1961 (7033)
• India
25 Feb 11
Hi dear, Problems are just like our hair. It is there for all the times. Even if we cut or drim, it will grow again. So, we cannot stop the growth in any way. But we can do something to it. Comb it properly, tie it patterns, cut in a way to be look like, if get grayed, re colour well with desired colour, for good looking, apply shampoo and we treat our hair in various manners. Similarly, same approach to our problems also - study why problems, find out how we can solve it? If it monetary, think how good we can face it, if it of health, manage our body physically fit, job, family, medical, and any other - find a solution for it, and if possible, take more time but kill it once and for all. Even if we solve one, next will appear. So get the power to foresee our problems and issues and take timely decisions appropriately and cooperate with problems and find a smooth approach. However, to say, it is so easy and get it practically done is an issue. So, get it practically done is the effort what we need to spend. How efficiently we resolve the problem is our ability. So, think what you can do for it and, can I expect a reply from you, which I never get from you, any more. Have a nice day and best regards. Hope atleast tomorrow will be a good day for you. Thank-s
• India
26 Feb 11
Hi Kalpana, Whenever I say your avatar, I will get a glimpse of our Kalpana and I dedicate this conversation in her cherished memory. Right, I did the comparison with hair. In fact if every aspect in our life is simply compare with similar things, and think and act in such a way, the our world and the life here would be more happier and enjoyable. I sad fact is that we all know everything well and better, but we never do it will not try to get good out of it. That is the reason why we never can see the real thing which all are so near to us. Thanks for your nice comment and have a nice day. Thank-s
• India
26 Feb 11
Hi friend, You are compared our problems with our hair. You are showing a different good way of thinking. I always want to a meet a good person like you.
@polaris77 (2039)
• Bacau, Romania
25 Feb 11
I guess many of us we have the same problems,we don't knowv what tomorrow will bring,and if we are pessimistic we only expect changes from bad to worse.I think you should force yourself to think positively,good things can happen when you least expect them,so why not believe in positive changes?
• India
26 Feb 11
@savypat (20216)
• United States
24 Feb 11
Change your point of view. Look at problems as challenges to be met and solved. most of life is not personal they are just happenings and if you look at htem that way and stop feeling sorry for yourself, which is a waste of energy, you will find a way to walk around them.A funny statement comes to mind. "If life gives you lemons, make lemonaide". In other words don't complain because you didn't get apples. Blessings
• India
25 Feb 11
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
27 Feb 11
Before, my life is very chaotic. Every day, I have to deal with the problem, which was never completed. All problems, make my life's journey becomes very heavy, and always makes me sad. But now, I wish, my life's journey for the better with a full smile, even though the problem has always existed. I decided, to face the problem with patience and with a smile. The journey of my life, become lighter now.
• United States
25 Feb 11
What is wrong Remo? Why feeling blue? I cannot offer any sound advice as I have been a bit down as well. The only thing we can do is hope for the best and or take a time out sometimes. So what ever the issue is maybe you need a break from it for a bit. As me that is what I am planning on doing, taking a break for a while and re-energizing my mind so that I can return with full force. It is not wise to dwell on issues as such a young age as life in itself is difficult and sometimes we add to the issues by consuming negativity. So when and if it is negativity we must avoid for a while.
• India
26 Feb 11
I understand that "problems are coming and going but the confidence level we must maintain it in high".
@JohnMach (550)
• Philippines
24 Feb 11
If problems start to flood your brain then you have to relax and clear your mind. You have to know how to relax yourself in order for you to have a clear mind.
• India
24 Feb 11
25 Feb 11
I suggest you think of all those wonderful and happy memories you have with your family and friends. Don't focus on your problems. This is what I always do to stay positive in life. Also do some change on your daily routine to make your mind occupied with other things.
• India
25 Feb 11
Don't worry just pray to god and i am shore that god helps every one don't give up..
• India
26 Feb 11