Why do some people take a video of their most intimate moments?

Philippines
February 24, 2011 6:10pm CST
A news hit one of the schools here in Albay. A teacher is involved in a s3x scandal alledgedly taken by her boyfriend. There was much at stake for the teacher than her boyfriend. Her reputation, the respect of coteachers, the community... I don't know the whole story. I'm just wondering why people has to take a video of those intimate moments? What were they thinking? Didn't it hit their minds that other people might see this? Or if not, why do some invade other people's right to privacy? What a shame!
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7 responses
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
YEs, those scandals are very famous, and I really pity the women who are involved in those (because usually they are the victims and they always lose more than the guys). People who take the video should be arrested for invasion of privacy and making those stuff.
@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
It is just so unfair- since it is not just the woman's fault, it's the man's too. That's why I was a bit saddened about how Katrina Halili's case against HAyden Kho turned out- Katrina lots so much, but HAyden the one who made the video, the cheater didn't lose much..
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Yes, in this society women are really the victims. In our country they have high regards to modesty. And issues like this when brought out in the open as the videos are released and passed to one media to the other, women are pulled to a really serious shame.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Any one can take a video of their most intimate moment if they want to but they have to make sure that it gets deleted right away. But women in teir right minds should say no if their guy starts to point their cellphones at them the moment they get undressed, even if their partner will promise the moon and the stars because it only spells trouble. All it takes is just mistake like a small LQ or stolen cellphone and your secret starts to spread like wild fire.
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
I do agree. Think before you nod. I asked my fellow teacher about it just now and she told me it was passed from cellphones to another. Maybe her boyfriend really did it.
@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
It's really a pity to think that the victim is a teacher and therefore should know better. The moment she allowed her boyfriend to take videos of them using their cellphone that already means trouble. Now she's paying the price for her naivety.
@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
25 Feb 11
A lot of ppl don't think any further than the moment until they see their most intimate moments on the web or being played for their friends and family. It's better that some things be kept private. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Yes, whatever it is there really are things that should remain private. Every individual has the right for that. Hopefully people, especially women do not make mistakes like this ever in their lives.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Yeah! Good question! I was searching for some files some time today and I found this video a scandal actually. Its Hayden Kho and Maricar Reyes doing it and it was such a horrible scene. Hayden is a freak and a psycho! Anyway, anyone who would take a video of their intimate moment is definitely just like him.
• United States
25 Feb 11
I suppose for anyone who has done them and then later regret where not thinking of future consequences. Do not get me wrong I have no qualms with anyone who perhaps feels that taping the intimates of one another. I won't as life has proven to ME, that not everything lasts, although I do have someone wonderful now for six years, but I am referring to my time before my boyfriend and although I have never been propositioned to have our moments video tape, am very glad as my answer would be no. You just never know where it will land, later in the future, especially these days with the web being so commonly used and accessible.
@kramsgir (146)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
Albay, is that found somewhere in Cebu? Really this kind of act is disgusting!.. Why can't they just do their thing without the video taking?.. Maybe they want people to notice them but i couldn't think of reasons why.
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
It's in the Bicol Region. I really don't know the whole story. Just heard it from a fellow teacher. I do not know if they took a video of it on purpose or if somebody else did. But it really is disgusting.
@staria (2780)
• Philippines
25 Feb 11
They tend to think of their own desires first and decide in the spur of the moment, not taking into consideration the possibilities that these videos may bring. Of course it will affect the teacher more and her reputation would really be at stake, as her profession requires her to be a role model for her students and for the society. Some people think that this act brings them more excitement, there were some who would like to "review" these intimate moments and watch them next time they do the act. Some are just plain maniac and use them to blackmail their partners. Whatever the reason is, taking videos of such acts should be consensual and should be given a deep thought.