why women hesitate when some body says I LOVE YOU?
By srinivas2036
@srinivas2036 (188)
India
February 26, 2011 4:18am CST
in general compared to boys Girls take little bit care than boys. While choosing their mates.How can they can have that much self control... As a boy i am not able to do so..But i was really intrested to know what it is..? Can anybody clarify ...????
Hope u all good
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8 responses
@med889 (5941)
•
27 Feb 11
I believe it is a bit of fear too that they expressing withing before accepting the love from a boy, they think a lot more than the boy before indulging in any serious relationship and even if it is not serious for the man it is for the woman.
@sterra1995 (74)
• United States
27 Feb 11
Hi srinvas2036, Alot of times when a guy says it it's he wants something. Then after he gets what he wants he doesn't really talk to you that much. So we tend to not trust guys that much. But if we have that feeling we do say it back. So you just need to find the right girl so good luck.
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@agrim94 (3805)
• India
27 Feb 11
Hi srinivas,
In good old days it was job of the man to propose and show interest. Then girls would show they are interested by way of how she behaved but now things are different. Both girls and boys are same. These days many girls even ask guys if they would like to take her out for dinner or things like that. But it is clearly how shy a person is..it depends on that because many boys are hesitant to ask too.
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@alindobre (148)
• Romania
26 Feb 11
It is because women are not looking for just a mate persay... They are looking also for someone to protect them, to provide security, both phisical and financial. Men are more inclined to go for looks, rather than the rest. Their instinct is to find a healthy partner for their babies.
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@heramiya14 (47)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
i do not know , im not a girl.....
hahahahh , i do not know there feelings..
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@hemlockspruce25 (501)
• Philippines
26 Feb 11
It is easy to say I love you, most women knew that.
But it is hard to do I love you.
Perhaps they are afraid of taking risks.
Accepting those words from a man may mean leaving their hearts defenseless.
When your heart is open it makes you strong and weak at the same time.
The female species hesitate that even if they had to say I love you too they wouldn't.
That is what you call defense mechanism.
Hope you make her see all your good points.
If she starts trusting you and loving you,
be sure to be worthy of that trust.
Happy loving and mylotting!
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
27 Feb 11
hello sri,
Every one has the free will to choose who to love and whom to say i love you.
So,if the girl doesn't love the boy,she will never reply with i love you.
And of course,what will gonna happen if the girl replies i love you to every boys that will asks for her love?...
have a great day
@srinivas2036 (188)
• India
28 Feb 11
yes ...you are right. They have their right to chose heir people. And its very funny to think if the girl accepts every one who met hr with a proposal. Anyway thanks for placing here your thought....
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